Marks on his penis

[Chellyp]

I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend has admitted to masturbation when I am not there. The other day I saw him and noticed he had some red scratch marks and a small chunk of skin missing on the outer skin of his penis. Is this normal after masturbation? I hadn't caused those marks.

It has made me paranoid in case another woman has done this. He did catch up with a female friend of his not long ago at her home which he claims he has never fancied her. She lives with her ex partner but I don't know if he was there when my boyfriend went round.

I don't want to jump to conclusions.

Just end it. Honestly.

He’s allowed to wank!

STD

Lol what

He scratched himself, he had an ingrown hair, he caught it in his zipper

Not everything means he's having an affair ffs

Scratches and a bit missing? If he’s having an affair it’s most likely with a raccoon by the sounds of it.

Thanks for your answer. I'm glad you said this. He tends to wear tight jeans so it is probably likely he caught it in a zipper.

Blimey. If you're at the point you're inspecting his willy and he has to admit that he masturbates, your relationship is probably over. You don't trust him.

Has "admitted" to masturbation!??!! You know that's totally normal, right?! It's not like a crime you need to confess to!

This.

And everyone is allowed to masturbate!!

First thing everyone is allowed to masturbate, you sound extremely controlling.

I had an ingrown hair that scarred, it doesn't mean I'm cheating. Honesting this place is awful sometimes.

If you don't trust him, then leave.

You know masturbation is normal and healthy in a relationship, right?

And also absolutely none of your business.

I've known (or was it a tv scene?) of a wife finding out he'd been cheating through scratches on his back but on his willy?!

I have no problem with him masturbating! I said this to explain the possible cause as he said sometimes it feels sore if he is too rough. I know some women do have a problem with their partner masturbating.

Poor bloody bloke

He has admitted to masturbation? You make it sound like it’s a crime. Most men masturbate a lot, I know my bf does and watches a lot of porn. It’s his prerogative. It’s not normal to have marks on your penis from masturbation or sexual relations unless he’s into something very kinky. Have you asked him?

God I thought you were asking for marks out of ten to start with

He could have caught it on a ring or a watch mid-wank, he could have nicked it with his zip, he could have a reaction to a washing powder, he could be shagging someone else.

What made you jump to the latter conclusion?

@User473831 this made me laugh like hyena

This is Mumsnet - EVERYTHING means he's having an affair

So you haven't actually asked him? I'm sure he can explain it better than any random stranger on here...

This really made me laugh.

I'd say depends where the marks on his penis are (top side or bottom side) and what they look like.

Not sure how to put this delicately because I don't think it's possible but a carpet burn from a near miss when in congress on a carpeted floor has a very distinctive appearance.

It's very unlikely someone would have 'done it to him' unless he is of a masochistic type because generally them thar items are handled with care - firmness perhaps - but care. Because - you know- it hurts and a man will let you know in no uncertain terms.

Who goes round taking a chunk out of a bloke's penis?

He'd remember catching it in a zip. 100%.

So he's either kinky as fuck or hiding something.

Check for raccoon footprints under his bed.. 🐻

Dry wank? Wanking too hard, too much etc. Can be the cause.

Somebody who really didn't want it in their face.
Personal experience.
No regrets.