Boyfriend says he can’t sleep without orgasm every night!

[Orangesmartie1]

Is that normal? It seems to me he is addicted. I’m not really interested in doing anything every single night.

Plus we have a 3 month old baby and although I was more interested before I’m not in the mood at all at the moment as I’m knackered and just want to sleep and feel a bit funny in my body. I wouldn’t mind a couple of times a week but not every single night. If I don’t want to
he will sort out himself which is not exactly endearing in itself but he never pushes or complains.

He just literally won’t sleep unless it has been played with one way or another.

How old is he? If he is early 20s I can well believe it. As everyone says, if he is happy to sort himself out then really you don't need to think about it. The only worry is if you think this is going to translate to him sleeping around.

must have either been quiet or done downstairs

Ok, so then you know that he can do those things, as he has done them before. This recent wanking to porn in bed next to you is a new thing, and you need to tell him it is unwelcome, and inappropriate.

Tonight, when he rolls off you and starts ferreting around with his phone in his hand, turn the light on and sit up in bed and tell him he needs to take that particular part of his nightly routine elsewhere, and do it where he used to do it before you had a baby, as it's upsetting you and keeping you awake.

I think the only worry she's got at the moment is that he is lying in bed next to her furiously and joyfully wanking himself stupid to porn while she and the baby lie next to him trying to sleep.

Currently, him seeking to stick his dick in someone else, not the worry.

It is reasonable to ask him to wank somewhere else. This does seem a lot like getting a little too detailed though in someone else's life!

DH has a very high sex drive and just doesn't mention it, as long as he isn't pressuring you then I don't see an issue

the issue is he's watching porn and having a wank in the bed beside her. she doesn't like it.

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OP, if it is not directly impacting on you, what on earth is the problem?

Have you read OPs posts?

why on earth are you asking stupid questions?

Always one… 🙄

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l’m never too proud in life to woman up and admit when I have got something wrong. I missed 2 pages in error when in a rush reading the thread, and yes, missed the additional info from the OP.

I agree it makes a world of difference and apologies all round 💐

My bad clearly didn't fully read OP!