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He is having an affair! Follow on thread

802 replies

heartbroken26 · 06/02/2023 21:00

I've made a follow on thread as frankly I need to continue to share my thoughts and gain support and advice from you all! I do feel a warmth reading all your lovely comments of support. Thank you!

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onwardsup4 · 28/03/2023 09:15

TracyBeakerSoYeah
I saw that too! Rather strange !

I find this whole thread strange tbh

This !

Nannylovesshopping · 28/03/2023 17:22

Op, do hope you ok

MelloYellow · 29/03/2023 10:03

Is it me or is this thread starting to become farcical.

ItchyBillco · 29/03/2023 10:06

MelloYellow · 29/03/2023 10:03

Is it me or is this thread starting to become farcical.

What’s been going on? I can’t see the post the others referred to.

MelloYellow · 29/03/2023 10:19

ItchyBillco · 29/03/2023 10:06

What’s been going on? I can’t see the post the others referred to.

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Apparently OP son picked him up from school and won’t return him.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 29/03/2023 11:26

ItchyBillco · 29/03/2023 10:06

What’s been going on? I can’t see the post the others referred to.

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I think it was removed.

Sarahbumdaa · 29/03/2023 17:12

I've wondered about this it seems everything that could go wrong has. But was thinking maybe benefit of the doubt here. Because if all that has happened its an awful time for the op.

RiverRock22 · 29/03/2023 17:43

Hope you're ok OP

Isthisexpected · 29/03/2023 19:25

Stop it. It isn't on implying the OP is a troll.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 29/03/2023 20:05

I am not implying Op is a troll as you can see from my previous posts that I have said words of support & really feel for her. No woman deserves what she's going through.

I just agreed that it was rather bizarre that Ops post had been pulled as in the sense of I hope no one has maliciously reported her & hope that every think is ok?

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 29/03/2023 20:13

I think last OP's last post was mistakenly put on the MN naughty step by accident as it's now been reinstated.

onwardsup4 · 29/03/2023 20:51

Sarahbumdaa · 29/03/2023 17:12

I've wondered about this it seems everything that could go wrong has. But was thinking maybe benefit of the doubt here. Because if all that has happened its an awful time for the op.

Agreed, a lot are probably thinking the same but yes benefit of the doubt

Timetochangetheoil · 29/03/2023 22:08

onwardsup4 · 29/03/2023 20:51

Agreed, a lot are probably thinking the same but yes benefit of the doubt

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Yep I agree.

glasshole · 29/03/2023 22:16

heartbroken26 · 24/03/2023 22:16

Hey! I'm really not doing good. In fact I don't know what to do! The git collected my son from school early on Wednesday on the pretence he had a doctors appointment. I only found out when i turned up at normal school finish time. now he's refusing to return him to me! He's using my son as a bargaining tool to hold power over me! I honestly feel like this man is a stranger, the police won't do anything as he is his father and don't deem him to be in danger. I just want my boy back, I'm heartbroken.

Sweet Jesus. He literally has no shame. This is shocking. Please don't say he took your kiddo to his new "home" with the maniac affair partner

AaaaaandBreathe · 30/03/2023 13:26

Can you not do the same and just collect him from school? Has he been going to school?

Jaxinthebox · 31/03/2023 07:36

How are things now @heartbroken26

paulaparticles · 01/04/2023 23:40

You poor thing 😔

Supergirl1958 · 05/04/2023 22:12

heartbroken26 · 24/03/2023 22:16

Hey! I'm really not doing good. In fact I don't know what to do! The git collected my son from school early on Wednesday on the pretence he had a doctors appointment. I only found out when i turned up at normal school finish time. now he's refusing to return him to me! He's using my son as a bargaining tool to hold power over me! I honestly feel like this man is a stranger, the police won't do anything as he is his father and don't deem him to be in danger. I just want my boy back, I'm heartbroken.

OMG OP what an a hole!! Have you managed to get him back :(

rainbowstardrops · 06/04/2023 07:21

I hope your son is back with you now

WarriorsComeOutToPlayay · 12/04/2023 09:52

How are you @heartbroken26? I hope things are much better for you.

Coulditreallybe · 23/04/2023 15:54

Hope you’re ok @heartbroken26

Isthisexpected · 24/04/2023 21:19

Did OP start a new thread since this one?

Orangessunshine · 29/04/2023 21:18

I don’t think so.…

I’m hoping she’s won the lottery and living her best life now with her boys, dickhead free.

(winning the lotto optional)

MelloYellow · 30/04/2023 08:07

She got bored and stopped x

Sunnymummy8 · 30/04/2023 18:58

There was a new thread.. I saw it and then never saw it again x