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An electrician has been doing jobs in my house and I felt there was some chemistry between us. Now wondering if I should contact him again or leave it

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Asparkwasfelt · 21/12/2022 22:43

Within the last month, an electrician has been over at my house to do a couple of jobs. His second visit was yesterday, and the work itself is now completely sorted and paid for. I'm happy on that front. As you can probably surmise from the fact I'm posting about him in relationships, I felt there was some connection between us and I'm wondering what I should do. After he finished the job, we were chatting for a good 20 minutes. While this was happening, I was smiling like a Cheshire cat and trying (and probably failing) not to give the impression of being an excited teenager with a crush. He was smiling a lot himself during the conversation. I asked him if he has a partner and he said he hasn't. Before he left, he said I should call or text him to let him know if I need anything else. I told him I would. I know tradesmen are supposed to be friendly and polite, but the way he said it seemed flirty. It seemed like he meant more than just to contact him if I need any more jobs done around the house.

I think he's very attractive. I fancied him a bit after the first visit, now I fancy him even more. I'm single with no DCs myself. If I had to guess I would say he is mid-30s. If I do text him, what should I say? Do you think it's too soon or should I wait a bit until after Christmas?

OP posts:
Happydayswillcomeagain · 29/12/2022 23:06

Excellent update 🥳🥳🥳🥳

Yorkshireadvisir · 20/01/2023 12:48

Do we need to buy a hat yet?

Iwanttoslowdown · 20/01/2023 17:15

Hey OP - @Yorkshireadvisir wants to buy a hat and I want to know if there was any further Fanjo action? Update pleeeeeeeeeease 😄

Violethayes · 21/03/2023 17:00

Just read this whole thread ! Any update?

Sandra1984 · 01/04/2023 14:10

He’s dying for you to text him, DO IT before he gets himself a girlfriend. Just text him and invite him for a beer in the pub, something casual. Do not get drunk and do not sleep with him (wait a few dates for that and once you know him better).

namechange3388 · 01/04/2023 14:16

Sandra1984 · 01/04/2023 14:10

He’s dying for you to text him, DO IT before he gets himself a girlfriend. Just text him and invite him for a beer in the pub, something casual. Do not get drunk and do not sleep with him (wait a few dates for that and once you know him better).

I've never said this before, but did you bother to read the thread at all?

This was posted in 2022!

But I'm sure the Op values that advice now Wink

Sandra1984 · 01/04/2023 14:17

namechange3388 · 01/04/2023 14:16

I've never said this before, but did you bother to read the thread at all?

This was posted in 2022!

But I'm sure the Op values that advice now Wink

Sorry I just realised it after posting OOOPS… she’s probably had a few kids with him and is divorced by now 🤣😂🤣

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