Man I'm seeing has 3 children with 3 different mothers. Red flag?

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I have been on 2 dates with this man. He is 36. He has dropped a bit of a bombshell and I am not sure how to proceed. He has 3 DCs with 3 women. He said he has good relationships with each DC and loves them. They are 12, 10 and 6. I did not press him about why the relationships he had with the DCs mums didn't work out. I am now wondering what has gone on with his prior relationships. I also wonder if the DCs were planned or not. I thought there was potential after the first date but not I am not sure. It's put me off him a bit honestly.

Lucky escape!

You’re so lucky, imagine you had fallen for his love bombing and were that poor pregnant woman. poor children and poor tax payers.

Contraception not his strong point then?

I bet you’re thanking your gut instinct now OP

Get your trainers on and start running 🚩🚩🚩

A family member has five children by four different women. He doesn’t see two of the children at at. It’s ruined his relationship with his own family who don’t even talk about him any more. The latest mother seems quite naive and sweet - and her whole family are thrilled with the new baby I wonder if they even know about the other children. I liked him but feel completely exasperated by the situation. It smacks of irresponsibility.

That's a collector's edition of red flags. Bin him ASAP.

Kate Winslet has three children. Born 2000, 2003, 2013. She was married to their fathers, and is still married as far as I know, to her third husband.

Kate Winslet's children have not been randomly distributed elsewhere while she hunts down another stud. The 2 situations are not comparable. In a long life I've met 3 women who left their children. One, due to old divorce laws, another reluctantly surrendered to father for assorted reasons and one who was, frankly, deranged with 5 children in care. I couldn't count the number of men I've met who have spawned and left kids behind. Lay off KW and all the other women who've bred with these feckless men. Irresponsible drones.

3 red flags and counting

Wouldn't touch him with a barge pole. Irresponsible scrote

Huge red flag. Huge.