@Jaxinthebox I have spoken to a solicitor, basically if/when we get to that point we’ve pretty much agreed the finances so would initiate a no fault divorce and just use solicitors for the necessary paperwork. So straightforward from that perspective, obviously untangling all the other bits (phone contracts, joint account, other bits and bobs) would take some time but it’s all doable.
DC are all older they don’t need looking after per se. DD, her friend and I are on our way back from the Canaries, which was a welcome break even if not always easy, but sooooo lovely to have some sun 🌞. Tomorrow I have a haircut booked and am meeting my running group at the weekend. I’ve signed up for a slightly scary 10-miler ina a few weeks so need to get my game on!
@sweetsuzie yes it was all about his ego. OW is out of the picture, of that I’m pretty much certain. He knows that if there was even a whiff of that not being the case there would be less than zero chance of coming back from it. (And it’s pretty minuscule as it is).
I do try to look after myself physically and emotionally, and generally think I’m pretty balanced (though not sure DC would always, agree!) I’ll take gorgeous even though I’m not sure I could really claim that one 😁
It is absolutely about what I want and need now, and I do think that’ll take a bit of time to really work through. I’m looking at what I want to get involved with more where I live, to meet some new people and to do some different things. Exploring life in a slightly different way to see where that takes me.