This made me laugh 😭so painfully accurate 😂
I’m still reading through this thread, soo informative for me as a newbie to OLD.
I have a question, for the more experienced among you lol…I swapped numbers with a man early last week via OLD , as he said ‘let’s talk when you’re free’.
On Friday I texted him saying let’s talk on Sunday if that works. He said sure and we agreed to text each other on The day ie. Sunday morning to arrange a specific time , as we were both not sure of our plans for Sunday yet .
the following day - Saturday - he texted me good morning, I said good morning back, then out of the blue… he video called me!! I’d literally just woke up so didn’t answer it.
When I got out of bed later I was finding it a bit off since it wasn’t what we agreed then It just hit me perhaps he rang by accident. So I texted him to ask if he had meant to call earlier. He said nothing at all…until today (Tuesday)! His reply this morning was so casual and he said “yes I like the video call “ 😂 it just seemed a bit strange, with no apology for the silence or for calling a day earlier. I understand impromptu video calls with someone you’re dating but not someone just met online
And I kind of suspect by his long silence he isn’t that interested and/or playing games. Life’s too short, so I’ve decided to just ignore his reply altogether and disconnected online.
Does that sound fair or too harsh? For context we are both childfree in our 30s and work mon-fri so he wasn’t busy with kids or work .