Got a DM on Instagram this morning. Private account but definitely not a fake one.
From a young woman claiming she has slept with my husband a few weeks ago and thought I deserved to know.
She knows details about a birth Mark on his chest and a tattoo on his ankle. But DH wears shorts a lot so lots would have seen the ankle tattoo. He does talk about his birth Mark as well so a lot of people know he has one. So I'm hoping that this is just someone stirring but wanted to post on here to get clarity and that I'm not just trying to comfort myself.
A few months ago he had a string of mysterious phone calls which led to a huge row as he wouldn't answer the phone to the mysterious person then started saying i was getting worked up over nothing. Nothing since then tho so other than that I have no reason to believe he has cheated.
I Will confront him but it's just his word against this random person on Instagram right? I'm calm thinking it's just someone stirring. But what if it's not? How would you feel?
Can't exactly break up over one set of messages from a random woman. We have 3 kids together.
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Did DH cheat or is this a joke?
Newuser1987 · 05/11/2022 16:05
Newuser1987 · 05/11/2022 17:54
I think I've got as much out of her as I can. She's given dates that are completely plausible.
She's said she doesn't want to be involved anymore and won't send screenshots in case I post them online.
Earlier she started deleting her original messages to me and I angrily told her I'd already screenshot everything (I hadn't). Prob got her back up and she thinks I'm going to humiliate her.
DH will be home from football match any minute now. I'm in 2 minds whether to just confront him now but I've got no more evidence and he will just deny it.
SandyY2K · 05/11/2022 18:14
You need more evidence that what she had told you.
A mark on his chest and something on his ankle is enough.
Ask for dates of when they met.
Where they met
Screenshots of any messages between them.
How she first met him.
Her info is too vague.
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