I am on a dating app - and I get one like a day. It has been years and years since I dated and I used to get so much more interest. Is it my age?
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Do men not want to date women in their late 30s?
onlinedatingsucks · 21/07/2022 14:23
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AMindNeedsBooks · 21/07/2022 21:54
I have an autistic child and your comment is disgusting. I was under 30 as was her Dad. She is a nicer person than you so I'd consider how how bad your genes are.
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SheeplessAndCounting · 21/07/2022 22:03
I have an autistic child and your comment is disgusting. I was under 30 as was her Dad. She is a nicer person than you so I'd consider how how bad your genes are.
Agree, it's disgusting how people speak about autism as if it's some kind of curse. Many of the most astonishing people who have contributed the most to our society were autistic.
Gwenhwyfar · 21/07/2022 22:11
"I didn't say that most do. I said plenty do. So making assumptions and generalisations is naive and insulting."
If you're talking about most, it's fine to make generalisations.
Most married women wear wedding rings. It's fine to say that, even if not all do.
lljkk · 21/07/2022 22:19
Did OP say OP has kids? I can't see OP said that.
Hmmm... late 30s friend is dating loads, and has done for years.
She is almost divorced, child-free although would like kids, & seems to date a lot of blokes who are also almost/just divorced.
Friend has a few other attributes that I would have expected would put some men off... they aren't put off. They aren't creepy sex pests, either.
Dunno why not.. .but seems to be possible to find some decent ones.
*friend keeps moaning she can't find a good bloke using OLD, then she updates saying she's found a good one after all
LadyCampanulaTottington · 21/07/2022 15:00
I'll leave this depressing graph here for you. Men are disgusting.
RedWingBoots · 21/07/2022 14:55
- Make it clear you actually want children.
- Make your age criteria 10 years older and 10 years younger than our actual age. (When I did this I found I got most interest and more dates from guys who were younger than me including over 5 years. I actually know a few women who are partnered/married to younger men some up to 10 years. My DP is actually my age.)
- Get your male friend (or another male friend) to put in different search criteria to see if you come up, and if you do when you do. Then tweak your profile so that you come up near the top of those search criteria.
And in real life start talking to more random people regardless of age and sex. So when you do go on dates you are good at starting conversations with strangers.
You can do this!
lljkk · 21/07/2022 22:19
Did OP say OP has kids? I can't see OP said that.
Hmmm... late 30s friend is dating loads, and has done for years.
She is almost divorced, child-free although would like kids, & seems to date a lot of blokes who are also almost/just divorced.
Friend has a few other attributes that I would have expected would put some men off... they aren't put off. They aren't creepy sex pests, either.
Dunno why not.. .but seems to be possible to find some decent ones.
*friend keeps moaning she can't find a good bloke using OLD, then she updates saying she's found a good one after all
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LadyCampanulaTottington · 21/07/2022 15:00
I'll leave this depressing graph here for you. Men are disgusting.
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