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Deliveroo man - please vote, MN!

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:23

Hi folks

Earlier today I received a friends request from the gentleman who delivered my stuff earlier (My facebook is in a fake name, but he's obviously looked me up).

My immediate thought was "fuck no, that's creepy"

However - he was attractive, he was nice, and I thought that after our interaction.

Do I accept?
What do I do?

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bambi1132 · 04/07/2022 18:25

I wouldn't, that is creepy!

007DoubleOSeven · 04/07/2022 18:27

Ah, no I couldn't! Stalker vibes!

Handmaid2019 · 04/07/2022 18:28

How different is your fake name to your actual name? Bit weird that he's found you!

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:29

Handmaid2019 · 04/07/2022 18:28

How different is your fake name to your actual name? Bit weird that he's found you!

Sorry, should clarify.
my deliveroo name is also in my fake name - all my apps are because they're connected to my facebook (thankfully!)

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VodselForDinner · 04/07/2022 18:30

Delete and block.

A man who knows where you live and then stalks you online is not someone I’d want to engage with.

Jade308 · 04/07/2022 18:30

Might have appeared in people you may know, especially as he's been to your house. FB is a bit creepy like that.

purplecorkheart · 04/07/2022 18:30

No from me. How did he find you on facebook of you use a fake name? If he used you phone number etc surely that is misusing work data

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 18:31

I mean... He's not really noted down any of your personal details by remembering your name.

I think if he took my phone number and text me I would be pissed off but your name is there to see.

I don't know how I feel about this TBH!

SmileyPiuPiu · 04/07/2022 18:31

Absolutely not. I'd report him to the deliveroo ap personally.

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:33

purplecorkheart · 04/07/2022 18:30

No from me. How did he find you on facebook of you use a fake name? If he used you phone number etc surely that is misusing work data

My deliveroo is in my fake name because it's connected to my facebook. I still think thats misuing work data!

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Annoyedwithmyself · 04/07/2022 18:33

Has he messaged you or just added? I wouldn't really like being searched by someone doing their job tbh. He should really have asked you at the time

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:33

I think this is proved im shallow as if he wasn't good looking, I'd have instantly reported him!

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:34

Annoyedwithmyself · 04/07/2022 18:33

Has he messaged you or just added? I wouldn't really like being searched by someone doing their job tbh. He should really have asked you at the time

Just an add

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Annoyedwithmyself · 04/07/2022 18:34

If you'd had a chat and he wanted to continue it I mean.

ZaraSizeMedium · 04/07/2022 18:36

Do you think you’re the first or only woman he’s done this to today/this week/this month?

What a creep.

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:38

ZaraSizeMedium · 04/07/2022 18:36

Do you think you’re the first or only woman he’s done this to today/this week/this month?

What a creep.

Eh yes.

Are you telling me that whoever from Nigeria who said I was the most beautiful woman in my inbox wasnt jist saying it to me :(

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DramaAlpaca · 04/07/2022 18:41

What ZaraSizeMedium said ^^

Utter creep. Report him.

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:41

The plot thickens.

I've looked him up.

He is also a member of a group I'm in (not a big one, based on the area I live in).

I've bit the bullet and messaged him saying did you really just add my details from deliveroo....?!

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Russell19 · 04/07/2022 18:43

But what did you order? 🤣🤣

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:45

Russell19 · 04/07/2022 18:43

But what did you order? 🤣🤣

Passionfruit gin, eggs, sprite, cheese and bread (Morrisons order after work cause im lazy as fuck).

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:47

Ladies an interaction has begun

Me:
Did you really look up my info from deliveroo?!

Him:
A miss click lol ;) apologies ;)

Me:
You know you could be sacked for that? I would suggest you don't do it again.

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:48

Him:

Sorry about that.

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:48

Gutted @ZaraSizeMedium is right. Here was me thinking this was a modern romcom <3

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beautyisthefaceisee · 04/07/2022 18:52

A mid click indeed.

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lolil · 04/07/2022 18:55

How weird of him and how weird of you to get into a conversation with him, essentially telling him off. Block him and report him. Who cares what local group he is in Confused