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I stayed over.

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hairtwirl · 23/05/2022 10:56

Third date on Saturday
He insisted I stayed over instead of Uber home - I was happy as night had gone well
No sex

Had been talking 6-8 weeks

He had worked away in the middle so did not see each other then

He said 'see you soon' when I left in the morning and all seemed fairly normal from my point of view. I left about 10am on Sunday

NC from him since I left. Did text yesterday to hope his work day had went well but no response

Bad sign?

For context he is a 'bad texter' and frequently leaves 12-24 hours with text replies and will respond something thoughful. I suppose I probably just feel sensitive as we cuddled and kissed the whole night - but we have never spoken about anything heavy / exclusive / had intercourse. I was happy with way things were going

I seen anti depressants in his bathroom which is no problem for me - but makes me think I should go easy on him and not jump to conclusions about his contact style

OP posts:
Jaxinthebox · 11/06/2022 17:28

that sounds promising. how is it going - any further dates?

Cmit08 · 11/06/2022 23:33

@Hairtwirl1 i started reading your thread and thought omg this Is the guy I’ve just been dating. Some uncanny resemblances..but mine didn’t work abroad so I sighed relief!
I’ve done the same as you and left mine be after being ignored after a petty disagreement. No dumping from him but no reply/acknowledgment is as good. I really hope you find happiness you sound so lovely. Well done for handling it so well!

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