My fiancé wants to have days out with his Ex

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I would like to know if I am being unreasonable; my fiancé has a persistent ex who has ruined all
his previous relationships as they always end up sleeping together whilst he’s in relationships. he expects me to go to events and gatherings that she will be at and if I don’t want to go he’s going to go regardless. I don’t want to put myself in a position where I can be antagonised and put my safety at risk. We have a little girl and are engaged and it seems he would rather put these gatherings before my safety and well-being. She is always posting things aimed at me and tries to get a rise.. Am I being selfish?

I’m sorry but why the actual fuck did you have a kid with a supposed ‘man’ who is incapable of putting your relationship first, putting you and your family first.

youve fucked yourself over good and proper
no way should you marry him, You should have dumped him the first time he pulled this shit.

now you absolutely need to dump him and are totally financially exposed. there is zero chance of you ever pulling this situation round.