I've had so much amazing support and advice on thread 1:
www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/4447267-Utterly-utterly-heartbroken?page=10&reply=116823741
My first and very significant relationship, following the end of a long traumatic marriage, ended in January leaving me devastated. A lot of trauma plus single parent to two teens with disabilities/asd plus severe chronic pain folowing back injury 2 years ago mean my resilience is very small.
Seems the end of this first relationship post unhappy marriage has also been v difficult for many others. As is the end of others' relationships.
So this thread is here for me as I try to make progress, and for anyone else struggling who'd like to join.
Lots of excellent advice on first thread too.
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Utterly heartbroken pt2 - baby steps forward
colouringindoors · 23/04/2022 13:27
Thisisworsethananticpated · 18/05/2022 08:19
DrBrennerFan
no one will slam and hate you here !
im sorry you are feeling so sad 😞
Thisisworsethananticpated · 18/05/2022 13:25
Maybe on a public forum
I agree
but I’m not judgmental and never have been
a broken heart is a broken heart
we all fuck up
everyone
colouringindoors · 18/05/2022 18:25
@DrBrennerFan no judgement from me. Like you I've had to survive a lot of shit and trauma. Which is partly why the end of my relationship, my final "happyish ever after" was so utterly devastating.
Can you talk to your in-laws at all about how you're feeling? About his grumpiness? I'm guessing here, but if you were to finish things with this man it doesn't necessarily mean you'd loose the relationship with your in-laws.
colouringindoors · 19/05/2022 20:22
So has he ghosted you? That's horrible. Good plan to delete all photos, they can be seriously triggering in my experience. Hopefully the antibiotics will kick in soon and you can give yourself a few treats and nice distractions.
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