Almost a year ago my husband told me that a woman at work had progressively been getting more and more flirtatious , that it had started as work banter but escalated to her declaring how much she fancied him
and propositioned him for sex.
When he told me he was wracked with guilt and was upset saying he didn't know what to do.
2 or three times since I've looked at his phone and found either him still entertaining texts back and forth, although not inappropriate and then last week looked and it's obvious messages have been deleted.
I'm in trauma therapy at the moment and it's a thing of mine to bury feelings and avoid them.
I spoke to him yesterday about deleted messages and he said he deleted them as he doesn't want me to worry.
He was out last night on a work do and she was there
All of this I thought I was ok with, but when I actually connect with myself I feel angry.
I was plotting to get his phone and set up my iPad with his iCloud account so I can see the messages but that's not particularly constructive.
I'm not sure what to do - any insight ?