My girlfriends wants money after two months

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That is really. I have been seeing this woman for a couple of months. We have seen each other every couple of weeks since January and everything is fantastic. We talk almost every day. She is beautiful, interesting and I really like her. I could see a future for us after being single for a long time. The only problem is that she just told me she needs 500 pounds a month to pay her rent each month. She is not from the UK so she said in her country it is normal for a boyfriend to pay for things for his girlfriend. Is she taking me for a ride? I can afford the 500 pounds.

She wants you to pay her rent for her every month?
Thatll be a no, surely?

She sees you as a cash cow not a future partner. Does she work or have the right to do so?

Why should you give her any money? I'm not following this. I would suggest she gets a job.

Yeah, don't do that. She wants to use you for your money

You seriously need to ask? Of course she's taking you for a ride

Is she taking me for a ride?

Yes

Don’t be silly

What would she do if she hadn't met you?

She'd find another mug to pay for her. What you have isn't special, she wants to use you.

Omg, how cheeky of her! Please for God's sake do not offer to pay for her rent! Number 1 - it's not your responsibility and number 2 - yes I second what other have said, it sounds like she just using you. Why can't she pay for it herself?!

That is really. I have been seeing this woman for a couple of months. We have seen each other every couple of weeks since January and everything is fantastic.

What a great racket, only has to see you once a fortnight and probably askin 13 others the same in rotation …

It might be normal in her country.
It doesn’t mean you have to say YES.

Would you be happy to give her that money after a few months, even though you’re not living together?
Or will you be taken for granted/taken advantage of? I’m guessing the latter if you are posting about it!

There are definitely cultures where this is the done thing. The question is are you comfortable with this and willing to do this?

Don't pay it. She's shown her true money grabbing ways early on.

She's taking you for a ride.

Thanks for all the replies. I knew it. I just wanted external confirmation. It's a shame.

Don’t do it.

I could do with £500 a month. Thanks

Sounds like she is wanting more of an "arrangement" and not an actual relationship.

That would be a definite NO. Makes me wonder how she paid it before you came along

My BiL does this. I believe it’s known as Sugar Daddy (which is a polite form of prostitution).

money grabber right there

I'm sure in any country that's the same thing

Is she very very beautiful, always too busy to chat or go on dates with you and rarely intimate? Sounds like the kind of scam you read in the papers/see on Netflix

Don't be daft ! She is taking the piss !

You should say no and see what happens.. it seems odd if you only see each other every fortnight- how many boyfriends does she have , each giving her 500 pounds a month

Don't even think about it!