@DottyHarmer
Picking up on a point from page one, those who are LGBTQ++++ always bang on about their “identity” and even how they
are their identity.
Therefore, why can’t heterosexuals have an identity and preferences too? We all have eyes and however faithful we are, it’s only natural to ogle an attractive person. I would have a problem with Dh fancying men.
Yes unfortunately it doesn't apply to straight people!
The irony of people who refuse to accept straight peoples description of their own sexual identity...by calling those people biphobic.
I think it does more harm than good to members of the bi community to call it biphobia.
Why not just normalise acceptance of the fact that some straight people are only attracted to straight people?
People can berate people, call them biphobic, criticise or challenge their preferences, say x, y and z but STILL the person who only wants to date straight people will only want to date who they want to date, so why take it personally?
If it was normalised and accepted then it wouldn't be taken so personally, calling it biphobic is just telling bisexual people to be offended by it, telling bi people that some straight people think you're dirty or repulsive when that's not what we even think!
People try to be woke and PC, but they can be as woke as they want and try to push for social change but that WILL NOT change peoples sexualities and preferences.
Monosexuality is romantic or sexual attraction to members of one sex or gender only.
I just heard this term and it is used in contrast to bisexuality, apparently it can be offensive but what isn't these days....
It's not a label I'd really use but for the purposes of this thread I am happy to call myself monosexual as I am a woman who is exclusively attracted to men.
The concept that some monosexual people might only be attracted to other monosexual people makes absolutely perfect sense, but some people look at that very logical thing and decide there must be something sinister about it or that it makes no sense at all.
Bisexual people sometimes prefer to only date other bisexual people as they say they understand the experience of being bisexual better so it also makes sense that 'monosexual' people too are drawn to those sharing the same experience.
There are some bisexual people who will sleep with men and women but only want to date men or they only want to date women and they just wouldn't ever consider dating the other. Those nuances in sexual identity are accepted but straight people who won't date bisexual people are biphobic?