Is this a hotel ?

[anon50]

I know this may sound weird, but from this image does this look like it's in a hotel.
I know it's a bit hard to tell but all opinions are very much welcome.

people commenting on his jacket.

Yes it’s a hotel. He sounds awful and you deserve better than to spend your life stressing like this over someone like him. Imagine how good you would feel if he was no longer in your life.

@MsDogLady

OP, you do have evidence of some of his cheating—the recordings he made of his video sex with OWs. Why isn’t that enough to be a dealbreaker?

He’s not a good guy, OP.

Where is he claiming he is if not a hotel in this picture?
He's got a fucking brass neck posting on SM because he knows you won't see it hasn't he?

It looks like a B&B room to me.

Sorry OP.

Is there a reason you don't have Facebook? BTW, looking at your husband's profile is not stalking. Why on earth would be post something publically then accuse you of stalking.

@isthismylifenow yes a B&B would explain the pictures on the wall.

Yes looks like with the emergency information on the door and the closer

I would say yes because of the notice on the door and the kind of lighting

Looks like a place to meet prostitutes. Why would he post this on Facebook?
He's a cheating bastard op.

Whilst I agree this looks like a hotel or some kind of temporary accommodation. I wouldn't say the fire door and lock were the reason, as I have the exact same door and lock in my flat.

He is lying to you OP I have just read your other post and I really do feel for you. This man is using you, you don't need anymore proof. I have been cheated on before by a long term partner and I understand the need to know all the details, but the details won't change the fact you need this awful human being out of your life. I hope you're ok and find the strength to so. Take care of yourself .

OP, I've just seen you're other thread.
This man you're with is appalling!! He has lied to you, continues to lie to you and WILL continue to lie to you.
Don't let him erode your self confidence like this. You deserve SO much better than this shit of a guy.

Hi OP I'm so sorry you've been hurt by him. But I was wondering why you need to know what he's been doing? He's obviously lied, whether he tells the truth or not now isn't in your control either, it's up to him, so whatever he says might also be lies.

Could you do some self neurolinguistic programming so what happened doesn't matter to you anymore? You might feel a little better then.

And of course ended a relationship, even under these circumstances is hard, so take it easy, be kind to yourself no one else, and do what you need to do.

The room btw is in a commercial property, it could be a hotel, HMO or office.

Good luck hun.

Op can you look at those who have liked the photo or commented on it...look at their Facebook page for the same date, maybe it will give you more clues, because if he was going to a hotel with someone then maybe they put something on their Facebook page too

I don't think it's a hotel room because of the pictures but it could very well be a cheap B&B or similar.
Where is he supposed to be?

@WildPoinsettia

Think you just have to accept you've got all the most important information. Which is that he's a lying scumbag and your marriage is over. You know in your heart he's cheated. You know you can't trust him. You know you need to make an exit plan. Those are all the most important things. Because he's a liar, even if he told you the truth you wouldn't know for sure that it was the truth. So you accept there's nothing he can say or do that will comfort you or make you feel better in any way. You want the truth and the details but it's one of those situations where you have to accept that you can't have what you want. It's rotten though

This in spades.

Having been cheated on I can confirm knowing amd not knowing the details is irrelevant.

Make your exit plan and focus on yourself. Go totally NC a d don't engage with him. At all. IME Men seem to find this THE most infuriating

Also agree with others... he can't dress for shit. The jacket is gross.

OP reading your previous thread I am seriously worried at your lack of boundaries I’m not being harsh but trust your instinct.

For other posters OP was in a LDR with this man for 4 years. He has come over from Nigeria and married OP. They met in a ‘trading’ forum of sorts. She had met him once pre marriage. He was also in another LDR at the same time. Hedging his bets on a visa I would guess!!

You need to ltb op. If nothing else, he stole Inspector Gadgets jacket. Hope you're OK.

It looks like a lot of the BnBs I stayed in as a student, around the Kings Cross/Bloomsbury area of London. Back when Premier Inns were too expensive. This isn't a big corporate chain hotel, but it's definitely a hotel of sorts, OP.

Anyway, the hotel sounds like the least of your problems, OP. I hope you leave this man, and today.

It could be some sort of hostel.

Please don’t have kids with this man. Get a divorce.

Just read your other post. He definitely is cheating and probably has more than one wife! Give your head a wobble and leave him ASAP!

I e just read your other thread. He's dodgy as hell OP. Kick him out.

Yes. The instruction picture on the door says it's a hotel.

Does it even matter where it is considering all the other negatives about this man. My advice is get out of this useless relationship as soon as. Women don’t need to be with any old piece of garbage, being on your own is far better than that.

I think more bnb or air bnb due to the pictures.

Yes definitely.