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i don`t think i can take this much longer

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mummyofaprincess · 27/12/2007 20:56

People might know my story from my other thread on here,

I found out my partner was cheating on me via a message on his phone form OW.

He left me, DD (3) and my 6 month bump.

Well i wanted to try he never even gave us chance he looked me in my eyes and said he loved her and wanted her, hes 26 shes 17.

He had brought her back to our place, he admitted this about 2 weeks ago now.

Well now ive found pictures of them together and its really cut me up, i cant believe it.

He looks so happy

How could he do this to me, we was together 7 years.

If it wasnt for my dcs then i dont know what i would do, i really hate myself, i keep asking myself why me?, it doesnt help that she`s younger and much better looking, thinner got a job with my xp etc

Why would she want my xp when she can have the pick of the croud?

Will this get any easier, its only been just over 5 weeks but i`ve come along way since then, but this has made me step back like 10 thousand steps

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mummyofaprincess · 21/02/2008 09:07

Hi so sorry i`ve not been online for days now.

xp is being very mean with regards to seeing DD, he wants it all his way or no way.

He has been very nasty on the phone with me even slagging of my family, and i NEVER slag of his.

My mom has been very good with him over the years even letting him live there for FREE!

I know he is only trying to get to me and no its not working but is there any need to be so nasty towards my family?

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hertsnessex · 21/02/2008 09:16

he is being a prick and taking out his anger on your family, even though he knows he is in thw wrong. you are doing so well, dont let this set you back.

xx

mummyofaprincess · 21/02/2008 09:29

Since that phone call i have asked when he wants to see DD again and he hasn`t replied.

I can`t make him see DD, but DD is so upset and wants to know when daddy is seeing her next

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hertsnessex · 21/02/2008 15:00

oh MOAP, its not fair, but she will remember all you have done for her when she grows up, and all you can do is your best for her.

xx

mummyofaprincess · 22/02/2008 22:04

Thank you hertsnessex that means alot to me

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mummyofaprincess · 22/02/2008 22:07

Kimi i will email you soon, im sure ill have lots to say lol

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littlewoman · 23/02/2008 03:02

Hi MOAP, I just wanted to wish you well. I've been there and it is an experience that will affect the rest of my life. No bugger will ever get so much of me for free again. I wish you sleep and a peaceful mind, cos those are the things that are most hard to come by in the early months. Thnking of you.

Kimi · 23/02/2008 09:26

Looking forward to your email hope you are ok

AnneMayesR · 26/02/2008 09:03

Hey MoaP How are You? I hope things are looking up.

mummyofaprincess · 26/02/2008 09:22

Hi AMR

Things are o.k thank you.

Not had much to say lately as xp is being the same so would only be going over old ground

He will never change now i don`t think.

Dd still doesnt come first so that says it all really doesnt it

DD is much better now aswell and is sleeping through the night and she`s also talking to me loads again.

DD is very excited about the baby coming soon

I hope she doesn`t feel pushed out, but i will involve DD as much as i can

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ginnedup · 27/02/2008 22:42

Hi MOAP.
Don't worry your dd will feel pushed out, I'm sure she won't. Ds1 was great when I had ds2 and I had the same worries as you. she knows you love her and you are a great Mum. Give her little jobs to do for you and let her give lo lots of cuddles.
It will all work out fine - you'll see

TLSM · 28/02/2008 23:04

Hi Mummyofaprincess I have been following your thread checking in to see if our ok hope the Pregnancy is going remember we are all there for you over on the antenatal if even you want a chat x

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