As I said before I really started out thinking Ioan was an ungrateful creep who left his devoted and supportive wife to pursue a younger woman now his wife is ‘older’ (NOT ‘old’)
But honestly; if she was half as vitriolic and histrionic in their marriage as she has been since the split, he must be exhausted and frankly in need of light company and positivity. Several comments she has made has made me think their marriage was one of her being hysterical, paranoid and needy - not letting him speak Welsh to his parents for one thing. How controlling is that?
He has done one slightly dubious thing in posting a photo of his new girlfriend a year after the split.
In return she has weaponised their kids - apparently they ‘accidentally’ saw the divorce papers, and she has leaked all kinds of things about their emotional state and things they have said. Private things which I can’t imagine the girls thought would end up splashed across the paper.
She has gone absolutely postal on social media, not surprising initially but she is still at it a year down the line - liking comments about Bianca’s looks, ‘watch your back’ type stuff, claims about Ioan which she then seems unable to substantiate.
By comparison all he has done is left her, and now a year later has a new girlfriend. All very upsetting for her but her reaction has really made me think he needed to get away from her for his mental health & the fact he has found someone else, well good luck to him.
I hope Alice gets the help she needs. She says she has no friends - why doesn’t she? It is within her power to now improve her life and move on from this, but she seems determined to press the self destruct button and take Ioan down with her. It’s all very sad and it must be awful for their kids.