I'd like to survey to find out if my relationship is normal.
My DH has a high sex drive. I'm not so high, but we DTD more than average (I think!) Once a week intercourse and 3-4x a week other foreplay.
I am sad because we never touch, never cuddle, never have any physical contact, unless it's sex. 😔
He says he can't cuddle me without getting horny. Therefore we can never just have a cuddle and chat. It always progresses to sex.
It's not that I don't want to have sex with him. But it does put me off whenever I do go to touch him, hug/cuddle that it always turns into sex.
(In the past he has woken me up regularly in the night for sex too. Especially if I touch him in anyway. Sometimes just out of the blue. I've told him that this annoys me and he hasn't done this in a while)