Ever felt intense sexual attraction to a stranger/someone you shouldn't ?

[Tadmadruby]

I have never experienced this before so i don't quite understand it myself and did not act on it.

I am 34, divorced, had two long term relationships, never thought sex was missing anything before 🙈! Moved recently to a new flat, i saw a neighbour couple of times, no interaction between us so whatever and did not even look at him twice, then one day i was looking out if my window, he was standing in the street opposite my window on the phone with someone, i don't know what happen BOOM i was breathless, his voice is so dam sexy, i am just so hot for him, he is not even that good looking yet i find extremely sexually attractive!

It hit me so sudden, he is a stranger to me, not my type, but i am going crazy for him (not emotional, its animal instinct) !
I have seen him couple of times since and i try and look the other way whenever we cross path, it is just too much to handle !

The heck is that ?!

Anyone ever experienced sudden intense sexual desire to a stranger ? Do tell, would be good if i am not the only one.. weird🙈🙈

Yes. BIL. I think he feels the same

Yes, and more than once.

Yes. It’s not much fun when you’re married.

Yea my Cousins ex boyfriend when they were together . It was something I’ve never felt before or since .

Yes. A voice, a neck, a bare shoulder or a certain type of hand can trigger it.

Yes my sons teacher, he is so HOT!! I’ve been single for so long and he’s the only person I’ve found attractive in that time 😢

I wonder why?! Is he your type ?

Yes my first boyfriend's elder brother.

You are lucky to experience it more than once.have you ever acted on it ?

Yes.
We both admitted it to eachother.
He ticks every single one of my boxes both physically and personality-wise and he said the same for me….it’s just wrong place, wrong time

Did you act on it ? Was it mutual

Oh yes. This is also why I no longer drink red wine in public.

Would you make a move on him ? Do you think if it is intense and sudden it can be mutual ?

Yes once when I was in my 20’s and was serving this man. The attraction was ridiculous and I could tell he felt it too because of the way he kept looking at me and fumbling. Shame he was with his girlfriend
It was really weird and confusing.

Yep. Took me totally by surprise. Not an conventiinally handsome man by any stretch.

But omg do I want to... bastard's married.

Shame!

Yes...with someone I met online (not a dating site).

We started private messaging and things...ahem...escalated. But the while thing was based on messaging...never exchanged photos, never met in person.

Sounds completely mad but it was a lot of fun.

My sons teacher isn’t my type at all but there is just something about him! He lives near us so I run into him a lot, the worst part is I’m sure he knows I have a crush on him 😬

It blindsided me because my head has never once been turned away from DH. But this man I never felt temptation like it. I’be told myself it’s only because DH and I have hit an extremely rough patch and are questioning the future of pur marriage….but I’m not entirely convincing myself. This kind of attraction isn’t just because of that, I’m sure of it

The only time I ever had absolutely powerful waves of sheer lust was at least 15 years ago, when visiting an attraction with my ex and the DC (he wasn't an ex, then). We walked into one of the buildings, and the member of staff at the door was exactly the type I now know I go for. I don't think anyone realised I'd hit a WOW moment, but I was fighting to hide real waves of utter lust. I could even feel a slow rising blush, so I made sure to walk behind Ex and the DC, and keep my head down for a bit. It's the only time I've ever felt that.

Due to my ex being a cunt, I was very good at masking my feelings, so he never, ever suspected anything.

@Susannahmoody

Yes. BIL. I think he feels the same

I bet that’s awkward!

As soon as I saw a photo of him, that was it, I was completely smitten. We met, ended up in bed and it was amazing. He told me he was separated, but I don't think he is, so haven't seen him since I realised. But my heart still skips a beat even if I see his van parked up!

I made a phone call once too, spoke to a man and thought, he was absolutely wonderful. We eventually met and ended up living together for 3 years.

A young guy who worked in a sports shop in New York. I was there on holiday, can still remember him 25 years later. Just a weird and sudden intense attraction. Must have been pheromones or something.

Yes, on numerous occasions (though not for years now). I think I’m the opposite of demisexual - I’d rather they didn’t even speak.

I once slept with someone purely due to the way he played Jenga.