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Bf text I love you to

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Mistygeepurr · 26/09/2021 10:55

I had text of my bf saying I love u to.but I didn't message him it was like he was replying to a text of someone?

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ThisIsStartingToBoreMe · 26/09/2021 10:57

Yes , the "to" bit on the end gives the game away. I'm sorry. Why can't men just be happy with what they've got 😕

Sexnotgender · 26/09/2021 10:58

That’s not great 🙁 time to do some digging.

Thethreecs · 26/09/2021 10:59

What did he say when you asked him about it?

WashingMachineDrumFirePit · 26/09/2021 10:59

Yep. Replying to text from someone else.

What did you say in response?

ThatsNotMyReindeer · 26/09/2021 10:59

Auto fill?

WashingMachineDrumFirePit · 26/09/2021 11:02

I once had a message from a man I was was seeing that was obviously a reply to someone else. I just replied I don't think that was meant for me

First he apologised and made a weak excuse and then he retracted the apology and said he couldn't deal with my insecurity and had a big ol' rant.

I blocked him.

Noshowlomo · 26/09/2021 11:05

His mother …?
Just reply saying was that meant for me??

Tlollj · 26/09/2021 11:06

I hope he used double o

liveforsummer · 26/09/2021 11:11

Does he normally say I love you? The to, especially as it was to rather than too, could just have been accidentally added by predictive text. Any other reasons to be suspicious?

MsMarple · 26/09/2021 11:12

@Tlollj

I hope he used double o
Grin maybe he pressed send before he could add the rest? To infinity and beyond??
Dillydollydingdong · 26/09/2021 11:13

To the moon and back?

girlmom21 · 26/09/2021 11:14

If you're at the 'I love you' stage I'd assume it was auto fill and he just pressed an extra button than jump to the conclusion that he's cheating.

Dillydollydingdong · 26/09/2021 11:15

All you can do is ask, and see what he says

Charliechoosecarefully · 26/09/2021 11:17

@girlmom21

If you're at the 'I love you' stage I'd assume it was auto fill and he just pressed an extra button than jump to the conclusion that he's cheating.
This is what I would be thinking before I thought he was cheating, all you can do is ask though.
TeeBee · 26/09/2021 11:20

I'd dump him anyway for his poor spelling.

cantgetmyheadroundit · 26/09/2021 11:21

@TeeBee

I'd dump him anyway for his poor spelling.
Grin
FunkyFacts · 26/09/2021 11:27

What was the previous message? Maybe he was making a bad joke?

Ilovesandwiches · 26/09/2021 11:55

My autocorrect always makes me add but to the end of random sentences, could it be similar?

dworky · 26/09/2021 12:05

@Tlollj

I hope he used double o
He was quoting the lyrics "I will love you to the moon & back" but sent before finishing. Grin
arethereanyleftatall · 26/09/2021 12:10

I would also dump for the bad spelling. Genuinely. Makes me cringe.

QueenBee52 · 26/09/2021 12:48

He was messaging someone else.. sorry

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Mistygeepurr · 26/09/2021 13:00

Yes the thing is we hadn't messaged yesterday he left for work and I said I will give u a quick text later on your lunch break.so there was no exchange in messages from me to him.

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Mistygeepurr · 26/09/2021 13:03

Me being Me I didn't pull him on it.and he hasn't said anything.im waiting on how to put it to him.

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liveforsummer · 26/09/2021 13:04

He probably just thinks he sent 'I love you' and is starting to wonder why you haven't replied.

QueenBee52 · 26/09/2021 13:04

you ask him who he is seeing ... and wait for his reaction...

then you say .. this text was not for me.. so who was it for ?