Bf text I love you to

[Mistygeepurr]

I had text of my bf saying I love u to.but I didn't message him it was like he was replying to a text of someone?

OP I think it seems like a genuine mistake. I've been cheated on in the past and they've always been possessive with their phone, changing plans last minute and going out a lot xx

The fact that he's so relaxed about his phone is a really good sign.

Omg!! Do some digging. That's not great at all.

I could go there actually and surprise.its on like a industrial estate so full of engine work etc but i can get there I was actually thinking that myself lol

This is easier than just asking him who he was texting. Could have been his mum.

@RevolvingPivot

Do you think it's an "online" affair??

If you think he's seeing someone on a Saturday while telling you he's at work why would he be on messenger?!

This - if he was pretending to be at work, but is actually with an OW why does he need to text her. Likewise why would he need to be on messenger?

Just ask him when you see him. Saying nothing isn't making any difference any way. Ask him if he meant to send it to you because the "to" made it sound like a response so you didn't know if you should reply.
It's probably an innocent mistake and your mind will be at ease.

@Mistygeepurr

No evidence of anything being out of character at all. But it will always be in the back of my mind.i mite sit down later when having good and bring it up make out that was the reason I was off maybe make a joke about it in some way so it doesn't sound like I'm putting him on spot.

Well is it possible you're being a bit paranoid and insecure? It could quite easily have been caused by predictive text.

You can either trust your partner or not trust your partner. But not trusting someone is no way to live a relationship, it'll eat you up inside. So if you feel you can't trust him you should probably do both yourselves a favour and end it, regardless of whether or not he's done anything behind your back.

It could be an auto correct/predictive thing. I frequently stretch my thumb to the punctuation at the bottom for a ? etc and i catch the m or similar and it predicts a whole other word and because I'm a quick touch type I don't always get it before I've pressed return.

He could have been going for something else and it predicted to if he caught a button before pressing send?

Conversely he could also have meant sent it to someone else as has been stated. It all depends on how you feel about him and if you trust him.

@Mistygeepurr

Deep down I think it was a typo or meant something else just find it a bit unusual he didn't then being it up when he come home and said did u get the text etc I meant 2 say this or that. I don't know I'm probably being daft and there was nothing in it.

So why haven’t you talked to him about it? The biggest issue in your relationship may be the lack of effective communication!

Could he have been messaging his dad back, after his dad asked him to go around and help him with the jobs. X

He might have been messaging himself a reminder of his love of himself 😬.. but I think it's by the by as OP looks like a non returner 😳

I would imagine one of his mates texted him something insulting and this was his intended reply.

"haha spurs are playing like cunts. bet you're already screaming Nuno OUT, bring back José, you wanker lol"

"I love you too."

@MaenadsJustWannaHaveFun

I would imagine one of his mates texted him something insulting and this was his intended reply.

"haha spurs are playing like cunts. bet you're already screaming Nuno OUT, bring back José, you wanker lol"

"I love you too."

Ha Spurs did play shockingly tbf

@MaenadsJustWannaHaveFun

I would imagine one of his mates texted him something insulting and this was his intended reply.

"haha spurs are playing like cunts. bet you're already screaming Nuno OUT, bring back José, you wanker lol"

"I love you too."

😂🤣

Have you questioned him yet?

@Mistygeepurr

I would not worry

I would just be straight with him and just show him the text on your phone and ask him. Without asking him it's just going to keep playing on your mind . Hope you manage to sort it 🥰xxx

Did you ask him? I hope you are ok.

@TeeBee

I'd dump him anyway for his poor spelling.

@MitheringMytryl

if not you've got a snack for while you work out how to get rid.

So love the practicality of this

Was it ment in a sarky way because you hadn't text like oh yeah love you too sort of this ... does anyone know what I mean 🤣

@30tanned

Was it ment in a sarky way because you hadn't text like oh yeah love you too sort of this ... does anyone know what I mean 🤣

Yes I do