Hello
Hoping someone can offer advice
My partner and I got together last June, I fell pregnant in January and we both planned the baby.
Before I fell pregnant everything was great,
Slowly he started to change even said he didn't want the baby,
He started a new job 3 months ago and changed more
Then out of nowhere he said he feels time is running out and wants to go out with the lads.
I let him have a full weekend staying at his mates where he done what he wanted
He said he's gonna do it weekly until baby is here
I told him I think it's unfair sleeping out every weekend
Even his family agree with me
I have also had issues with baby and upto a month ago he said he didn't want her and admitted he is really scared about bring a dad
He come to a scan 2 weeks ago and cried and realised he does want her he's scared which I totally understand
After a series of arguments over him wanting to be out and naming absolutely no effort with me he's gone to his sisters
He has been out all weekend again and said he will.come tonight and stay.
Question is do I let him continue his blow outs how long do I allow it or do I just call it a day because he's leaving me at my most vulnerable time.
I do love him and feel none of my feelings have been taken into consideration at all he's been very selfish
Any advice welcome