Help. I'm on a date. I've read a text about me...

[doesthiscomewithfries]

I'm on a forth date with a guy. He's cooking. Left me in charge of his phone for Spotify.

It's not an iPhone. I don't know what I'm doing. I get out of the app. I panic. Hit another button. Whatsapp. It's a chat with a friend of his where he's detailing what we got up to on our last date.

Also scrolling back. I'm half a bottle of wine down. He says he might not see me again as I'm not his type.

Sooooo. What do I do now. I feel like crap.

@TheStoic

Nobody asked her to report her every move. There was genuine concern. People genuinely believed she was about to potentially be raped and she just vanished

The people genuinely concerned for her, and the people who expected her to report back, are not the same people. You, for example, were not genuinely concerned.

Try reading my first reply before making unfounded allegations.

If a poster titles their thread "Help. I'm on a date", says that they are at someone's house, have been drinking and asks "what do I do now" , making it sound as though they are in some kind of (possibly imminent) danger it is reasonable to expect the poster to respond to comments.

@doesthiscomewithfries

Sending hugs.

@doesthiscomewithfries you’re not an idiot at all 💞💐. Ignore the people who are mean. They are the idiots x glad you’re ok

Stay for the dinner and ask pertinent questions to make him squirm. Then tell him that he's really not your type and go home with a full belly and a smile on your face.

@saleorbouy dinner was on Friday eve 😉

OP I don't blame you for not wanting to continue the thread.
I'm glad you're ok. That is the important thing.

So you just happened to click on WhatsApp ...