I’ve just messaged the OWs husband

[The6thQueen]

Found out she’d called my husband again and asked him to set up another email account for them to talk. We’re over
But I’ve just forwarded her husband all their WhatsApp messages and images of her in the shower. Apparently she hadn’t told him the full story and they are starting IVF again shortly.
Im shaking and feel like a bitch, but I want her to hurt (and my stbxh) to hurt like I and my children are

Better he knows before more children are potentially brought into a shitshow

Don’t feel bad OP- I would feel exactly the same.

Good for you

I’ve sent them via messenger as I don’t have his phone no

Have deleted the image but still sent all their messages

Good on you, are they friends of yours, I hope you are ok.

She’s his work colleague

I found him via her Facebook account

Just be prepared for the fact that she's probably lied through her teeth to him, and she'll be the one he believes.

But good for you. Their lies, their shit to clear up.

Be careful with images, you wouldn't want her squeeling revenge porn on you.

Are the shower pics just head shots or are they X rated type? Depending on that I'm not sure if I'd have sent them, maybe delete. But he needs to know what he's getting into re the IVF, it's unfair to a) bring a child into it, & b) she/they are potentislly exposing both you & him to STDs. No guarantee they aren't shagging other people as well.

Good for you OP, stay strong as hard as it is. Prove you are no pushover.

@spinningspaniels

Just be prepared for the fact that she's probably lied through her teeth to him, and she'll be the one he believes.

But good for you. Their lies, their shit to clear up.

All their messages are there in black and white. Not sure how she can spin that one. Talks about them meeting for sex, how she wants to have children with my husband etc. If he believes her he’s a fool

I’ve deleted the images

Good for you! I’d want to know

If it’s messenger and you are not Facebook friends they will be in the ‘other’ folder and he will only see them if he actually checks.
Unless you add him as a friend he may not see it.
Fwiw I would have done the same thing.

The other husband deserved to know the truth. More so if there is possibility of having a child in the near future.

Hope you are ok

If you aren’t Facebook friends there’s a reasonable chance he won’t see your messages. Messages sent by strangers aren’t immediately obvious in the Messenger app, and he has to select to view them.

Cross posted with @Penistoe

Dead right.

Good !!!!!!!!!

Make sure you get all your documents and valuables sorted.
While ex is dealing with the fallout of your messages, get everything sorted on the home front

Friends request him he will see that and have a nosey hopefully see you have messaged him