Posting here for traffic rather than in sex.
Within the last 6 months partner has said the following to me:
"You're a bit loose 'down there'" (I have a DD, natural birth)
"You don't deserve oral sex anymore"
They did hurt me. We've had a bumpy ride during the past year and a bit (like many couples). We do have sex maybe once a fortnight/month. He isn't well endowed. I'm open about sex toys and was thinking about suggesting something but he is 'vanilla' and I think he wouldn't take it well 😔
Any advice?