DP says I smell all the time..

[Likeroses]

I suspect my DP is on the autistic spectrum, when we first met he would shower before and after we had sex I mean every time so if we had sex 5 times in a day he would shower all those times. I got pregnant with DD and whilst in labour he told me I smelt and shouted at me to get in the bath.
It's gotten worse he won't touch my vagina he will literally just do PIV and he won't kiss either.

I've had episodes of BV so I use the gel everyday gp said I have no infection I wash before sex and afterwards. Just feeling sick of having to be 100 percent freshly showered for him to come near me.
We briefly separated around two years ago and I had a fling he loved how I smelt.

It's really bothering me.

absolutely ASD is a red herring. Im not going to put up with an autistic person telling me I stink any more than anyone else because being told I stink all the time is really bad for my self esteem and its just a horribl;e thing to say to someone.
If he has extreme sensitivity to smells, thats his problem. If he cant cope with normal body smells at all, then that might mean that he cant cope with having a sexual relationship with someone, but it doesnt mean he gets to have a partner and bully them