How much younger is much..?

[HowMuchYoungerIsTooMuch]

OK. So I met a man about 3 or 4 years ago. We had a lot of chemistry. Nothing happened but we were clearly very attracted to each other.

Anyway, circumstances happened, we lost contact and then covid hit and I haven't seen him for a couple of years.

I bumped into him yesterday - he was working so we couldn't really chat but he messaged me in the evening to say it had been a really nice surprise. We've exchanged a few messages back and forth and it's clear we both still find each other attractive.

I'm not interested in a relationship, i wouldn't be a serious prospect for him anyway.

Would a summer fling - just a bit of fun - be a ridiculous idea?

I've just turned 46, he's 25.

@MadagascanSociety

And mods why delete comments that aren't encouraging of this gross behaviour?! Like seriously your guidelines say all must agree even if it's morally wrong?! Shameful

Stop being a bitch. What's morally wrong about two adults dating and having a sexual relationship. Remove the stick from your arse.

@MadagascanSociety no the guidelines are not to be nasty. HTH.

I was with you until the hard comment made me sick in my mouth

Tbf, I only said that in response to the person who suggested he was doing it for a bet.

Lulupooh. As I said I’m 62 and I can assure you I don’t have a granny fanny! Why on earth would you think that? Also, when with my FWB’s last night (35) I mentioned this discussion and asked him his thoughts, he looked at me and frowned, he said there’s nothing like an older woman, classy, sophisticated, smart and amazing in bed, I mentioned my body and his reply was, you have a cracking body, much better than women his own age. He said I was crazy attracted to you and your age made it even sexier. We had sex all night, mind blowing then again this morning. whoo Hoo!!!!!! Long may it continue!

I don't have a granny fanny either

I don't have a 'cracking body' - I'm 46 and a size 12. I've had 2 children but my 'fanny' is just fine. He thinks I'm 'hot' and that's good enough for me. The last man I dated (53) didn't think i was young, slim or beautiful enough and made sure I knew it.

I've found him to be far more open and respectful so far than any man my own age has been in a very long time.

Howmuch. And that’s just perfect. I love it when they say your so hot! I agree, much more open and respectful. Sex with a younger guy is so different from an older one. I find them fun to be with, we laugh, and they are more energetic!

Oh FFS!

I'm 15 years into a relationship with a man 22 years younger. LDR yes, but that's what keeps it going.

If it feels right, do it. Life is too short.

Anyway, the sex just gets better as you get older....

Oh shit, I've just realised I'm going to be the owner of a granny fanny in less than a decade.

That's it, I'm off to stick my head in the oven

Eww. Imagine being proud of that?! Sad

I am extremely proud of my marriage thank you very much. It's lasted way longer than anyone we know who married people their own age. We're happy. The only sad thing here is you being a bitter old bitch.

bitter old bitch.

Awww isn't that cute. You making assumptions about my age etc based on a few home truths about you.. Shows it affected you more than you want to admit!

So sweet! Thanks for thinking of me enough to address my post!

I'll leave you to it. I don't need to chase kids nor do I need to feel I have to make excuses to internet random as to why I prey on youngins... Enjoy....
I'm sure you'll find your place down the track and remember all the things you said here to embarrass yourselves and your families...

We'll be laughing from the sidelines, creeps.

At first I thought it was a bit weird because the age gap is similar to my mum and I’s but as I read on, it made me laugh (in a good way not spiteful). Life is too short! Enjoy yourself!
@ the 62 year old having fun with the younger guys, this cracked me up so much 😂😂 damn you sure do have a lot of energy! Hahah
This thread just made my day haha! Keep your stories coming 😂

You are 2 consenting adults I really don't see the problem is, that sort of age gap might not be for everyone but if you're both happy go for it! Life is too short to worry about what other people think.

And for the people saying it would be taking advantage of him give over! LOL he's a grown ass man and has his own mind if he didn't want to he wouldn't! Plus he made the fist move texting her!

I’d say 10 years or more is ‘younger’ but it’s up to you. Don’t worry what others think.

I'm (F) 17 yrs older than my OH, we met as friends, my idea was like yours, just a bit of fun.
14yrs later we're still together, own two properties together, have (pre covid) travelled the world together.
I'm in my 50s he's coming up to 40.
Our friends and families thought it strange at first but now we're just thought of as a couple.
Main thing is we are in love and don't care what anyone else thinks.
So go for it is my advice

Soooo much age discrimination on this thread! You people do realise it's a protected characteristic yes?

Well today I've spoken to a few friends about him/the situation.

Apart from one light hearted, "Well here's to you, Mrs R!" people who know me in real life and my history have been very pragmatic.

One friend just said that I never have been one to play by the rules, he sounds lovely and, as long as we're both happy, she can't see the problem. She suggested that maybe he is what I've been missing all these years. Now that might be overstating it somewhat but I know exactly what she means. I've had my fill of misogyny from men my own generation.

Chloroform you seem angry?

A 25 year old isn't anywhere near being a kid.

Honestly, just enjoy it, it’s so exciting, one of my FWB’s is 25, he’s so mature and manly it’s untrue. He’s very experienced in the bedroom. Like people say, both adults, both consenting, and both bloody enjoying it! I said to him that someone suggested he was here for a bet, he said yes, I BET I’m still having sex with you when your 70!! Your sexy as hell! Now let me see, who shall I have tonight 😈😈

Yeah, right 😉 in ya dreams, Barbara Cartland!

Well in fact Lulupoo I’ve shown him this thread, he’s reading it with a beer in hand, looking like a dream and smelling amazing. He can’t understand what the fuss is about. Obviously being a young gorgeous hot piece of ass he has no idea who Barbara Cartland is, I’ve shown him and he’s laughing and shaking his head, if only she could see you babe, you are right, it’s like being in the best dream EVER. When I separated from my husband I never thought I would be doing what I am doing. I absolutely love seeing my FWB’s. Your thoughts are very outdated. Maybe you should try it, stop being so negative.

Aww, bless! Maybe you could read one of her books to him, there must be some with pictures.