It sounds as if you have not experienced being put on a pedestal by a man and treated like a princess and being given kind and thoughtful treatment by a man every single day?!
Why don't you aim at finding the kindest, nicest man who worships the ground you walk on in order to start a family with?
Overall yours is a lovely post so don’t think I’m taking issue with your advice BUT
I’m a similar age to OP and have NEVER met a man who “treats me like a princess and puts me on a pedestal” or “worships the ground I walk in” and actually, amongst my peers even the happiest married with kids ones that I know do not have the whole princess/worshipping/pedestal dynamic. I think it’s very very rare these days for men who have got to mid 30s or their 40s without ever being committed to a woman or starting a family to be the sort to be used to putting anyone except themselves first. And I’m not sure most women in their mid/late 30s would want or expect to be “worshipped” or to be someone’s “princess”. Most of us have been just looking for a decent guy who would treat us as an equal and be respectful.
My family members who are now in their later 50s or older and settled down in their twenties or by 30 maximum have had a different dynamic in their past and yes maybe the princess/ground worshipping scenario but for our generation
We’ve had to deal with a very different dating world were a lot of men won’t even ask a woman they meet in person out,
Where internet dating and apps are the main way people meet and are basically like a fast food menu - he wants a blonde 25 year old this week, with a 35 year old single mum on the side and he might sample an 18 year old or even try a 60 year old just so he can say he can. All with no commitment.
By date 3 if you don’t sleep with these people (I never did), preferring to get to know them better, you are dumped as you are clearly “frigid”. On these dates, when you do feel ready for sex, that sex is often now heavily influenced by porn so you aren’t to be surprised if choking/anal/bdsm etc is part of even an early date and labelled “vanilla”
if you don’t want to and just fancy a bit of...y’know loving, affectionate, fun sex.
Instead of “Hello, I’ve noticed you around here and think you are very beautiful. Here’s my number, I’d love to take you out sometime so give me a ring if you are interested” which is the dating story of a lot of my relatives...we get dick pics. Or a message saying “pics plz” meaning “send me (a stranger) naked pictures of you”.
Occasionally you will meet what seems to be a decent guy and for the first time in 50 shit first dates with weirdos, you get excited and think this one could lead somewhere.
Only to find out he’s married. Or to have him “ghost” you with absolutely no explanation as to why.
A lot of friends thought about using niche dating sites like a Christian one where they could meet men who they thought would be more decent. Instead one had to take a court case out against a creepy stalker and the majority of men they met were recovering (but not recovered) addicts or men with really severe mental health problems. And they still got the dick pics and sexually explicit messages.
And I chose to use the “hobbies” route over internet dating but still came across married creeps, commitment phobes, porn addicts, cheaters etc. I still think hobbies, work, volunteering and asking friends if they have any really decent single relatives or friends looking to settle down is the best route but,
in a pandemic, even this is more challenging and most people are still using the apps and online option.
Most of the decent guys who knew they wanted marriage and kids seemed to settle down between 27-30.
My ex decided to reverse his previous discussions with me and announce he never wanted children when I was about to turn 31. If he’d been honest 2 years earlier instead of stringing me along and making out that he wanted the same things as me, I might have had a different outcome and not be childless today.
If OP waits for someone to treat her like a princess, worship the ground she walks on, and put her on a pedestal, she’s just as likely to be single and childless in 5 years as she would in her current set up.
I absolutely agree she needs to look for someone kind and who will be a good father. But hoping for some sort of fantasy prince is not at all realistic or healthy.