DP has been liking weird videos...

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DP has been liking videos of what seems to look like women but with male bits if you know what I mean... could this be a joke? They only have a few hundred likes and he's liked lots of them. I'm starting to wonder hmm... I don't want to confront him but he's one of those that is over the top masculine, could it be a front?

Well I'm a heterosexual woman and on the rare occasion I watch porn, i only watch male on male porn. Obviously in reality that wouldn't benefit me in any way but sometimes we all need some escapism.

He said he doesn't remember seeing it and that he isn't gay...

It sounds like he is bi-sexual.
It often starts with the liking of ‘chicks with ducks’ as it doesn’t feel as ‘wrong’ to them but eventually he would look at just men.

Unless you have an issue with him looking at any porn then I don’t think this has to be a deal breaker as many females enjoy looking at female only porn.

Has he ever suggested anything sexual that you felt were a bit odd?

@toocold54

It sounds like he is bi-sexual. It often starts with the liking of ‘chicks with ducks’ as it doesn’t feel as ‘wrong’ to them but eventually he would look at just men.

Unless you have an issue with him looking at any porn then I don’t think this has to be a deal breaker as many females enjoy looking at female only porn.

Has he ever suggested anything sexual that you felt were a bit odd?

Like this Toocold? Sorry, couldn't resist.

But seriously. OP, didn't you say it was multiple videos he had liked? So doubtful he "can't remember".

@toocold54

It sounds like he is bi-sexual. It often starts with the liking of ‘chicks with ducks’ as it doesn’t feel as ‘wrong’ to them but eventually he would look at just men.

Unless you have an issue with him looking at any porn then I don’t think this has to be a deal breaker as many females enjoy looking at female only porn.

Has he ever suggested anything sexual that you felt were a bit odd?

Sorry to not answer the post but the visual of this did give me a little chuckle or should that be chickle

😂😂 I didn’t realise the typo! Sorry!

Just had a look at some of that stuff. Wow. I feel unwell. It's mental

I would always advise to keep out of someone else’s fantasy life but if it involves ducks I would be worried

I would say get your ducks in a row, but that could just push him over the edge.

He doesn't remember??? He not only looked at them, he liked them!
If it was me, I couldn't look at him in the same way ever again.

He doesn’t remember? That’s not credible, he just doesn’t want to talk about it,

If porn was on a numerical scale with gay porn at 0 and heterosexual porn at 1, it would be a 0.5 with a male partner or 1.5 with a female so your DP is either only half-gay or abnormally straight .
Nothing to worry about either way.

It's really upsetting actually because I've had no answer whatsoever so might aswell have not talked about it.

God, this thread is so transphobic! Transwomen are women, right? Even if they have fully-functioning cocks...

And probably homophobic as well.

@WouldstrokeTomHardy

Just had a look at some of that stuff. Wow. I feel unwell. It's mental

I looked out of curiosity too. The mind boggles.

Now my husband will see my search history and wonder about my sexuality

@FluffyHippo

God, this thread is so transphobic! Transwomen are women, right? Even if they have fully-functioning cocks...

But heterosexual men tend to like vaginas. I don’t think sexuality is as straight forward as “they’re women”

I am heterosexual and have no interest in men with vaginas. I like penis’. That doesn’t make me transphobic- that means I have a preference I’m perfectly entitled to have.

I suppose it could be something to do with enjoying watching the womans pleasure...I mean he would understand a boy orgasm but not a girl one...so like, he could be getting a thrill from knowing what she is feeling?

Down the rabbit hole we go...

@Wanderlusto

I suppose it could be something to do with enjoying watching the womans pleasure...I mean he would understand a boy orgasm but not a girl one...so like, he could be getting a thrill from knowing what she is feeling?

Down the rabbit hole we go...

That's some amazing mind-gymnastics, just to explain why a man might have a taste for dick!

Yeah I mean its unlikely. But I was trying to think of it the other way round. Hot guy on the camera happens to have a fanny. At first you're like 'woah wait a minute' but then you figure meh, it's late, rooms dark and he has a nice face...and its online so its not like I'm obligated to go near anything lol. So you join in and as you go, you realise you can match his hand movements to feel what he feels. Kinda hot. In an odd kinky way.

I'm not into girls personally, wouldnt rule out a trans man after his surgery I suppose, but consider myself straight. Also dont even watch porn lol. But - I can see the appeal I suppose. I guess it would make things more intimate in a way.

Though...tbf a big wallpaper dancing about the screen...would be a bit harder to ignore xD so yeah he could just be gay.

He is clearly turned on by transwomen or has some gender dysphoria of his own. He just doesn't know you have found out. It doesn't mean he is only turned on by transwomen, but as you are married and you have seen this activity, it's only fair for you to ask him to explain it to you. Don't be confrontational though it's something he has kept to himself for a reason. Sometimes its nice to forewarn your partner about an impending conversation so they can prepare themself. Get ready to pop to the shops then just before you go mention you have seen his activity and would really benefit from an honest conversation where he explains it to you later. Tell him you don't want to be confrontational but you do want to understand. You do have to talk about it.

*walloper

Not wallpaper lol

I shouldn't jump to conclusions though.

I think, by the time you've seen what you've seen, you can haul out the trampoline and strap on the jetpack and rocket-leap to conclusions. This really and truly is what it is. Your man likes chicks with dicks. It's a fetish, a kink, that he will likely take further at some point. You'd best find that 'right time' to talk sooner rather than later. Because there never is a right time, is there? Face the lion in the den and talk it out. Good luck. It's one hell of a shock.

@TheVanguardSix why will he likely take it further at some point? Why is it not equally, if not more likely that it will remain a fantasy? Or are all plumbers actually ready and willing sex workers?