I'd love some advice if possible... I've recently been on my first couple of dates in a really long time. We met on Bumble and have been video chatting and texting for two months (although we've only actually met twice over the past few weeks). However, there's no hint of romance or chemistry yet! I've tried to steer it in that direction and really liked him initially. We text every day but it's always just about what we're up to and nothing really deeper than that.
I looked him up on Instagram and noticed he follows lots of scantily clad women (no idea who they are). And each of the times I looked, he's following new ones, so it's possible he's getting his kicks there instead. Or I also wondered if some of these are the other women he's currently dating.
My question is, how long would you leave it before giving up on someone you like if it doesn't seem to be going anywhere? And if, thanks to lockdown, growing chemistry and meeting up is a struggle, is it a bit bonkers at this stage for me to ask him if he's dating other women too? I realise it's too soon to be exclusive but thinking of him still also chatting to other women makes me want to give up at this point.
I'd really welcome any perspective though as I haven't dating in years before this. :)
I did ask him the other day if he likes me or if he sees this as more a friendship thing, and he said yes he likes me because "I seem nice" 
and he sees it as more than friendship. He's 50 if that makes a difference and says he wants a serious relationship and to have children.