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I fancy the plumber. HELP!

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PawPatrol24 · 19/01/2021 22:06

Recently single 26 year old Mumma here.
This particular plumber has come over twice the past 2/3 months to help with various things around my rented place.

He is is absolutely stunning. In his 30's. Three children. Not with the mother, but no idea of any girlfriend. Lovely to my very chatty, curious 3yo (obviously having seen her when fixing up the place).

I am sure there is a little chemistry but I'm not sure if I'm projecting. Something in the way he mentioned me being a full-time Mum, the smile on his face as he left and mentioning he's not with the mother.

He's said he'd keep me updated with various bits that need doing. Everyone says to see if he followed through with this but I can't eat or sleep properly. I feel like a 16 year old girl again!
I don't wanna step on no ones toes, but I also don't want to waste an opportunity.

Advice?!

OP posts:
sidesplittinglol · 08/03/2021 22:23

Im wondering the same. Did you hear back from him or seen him since op?

Wanderlust20 · 09/03/2021 08:55

Well that's an hour of my life I'm never getting back Smile Just RTFT expecting a love story, ha! I know poster's lives/problems are not for my entertainment but I do love a good big thread where a romance develops Smile I'm a sucker for a happy ending.

Good for you OP, for trying, I'd be too scared to.

PawPatrol24 · 04/05/2021 09:55

Right. I'm sorry its taken me this long to reply. A lot has happened.

He did in fact reply beginning of Jan/Feb (can't remember which now) stating had a girlfriend and he had some work that he might need to do to the property, if that was okay.
I just said sorry and that I hope I didn't upset his girlfriend and yeah, that's okay.

He hasn't actually come round to do said work, but not sure if that's the estate agents, landlord or him.

So that concludes this thread 😂

OP posts:
mynamesjefff · 04/05/2021 12:19

Awww what a shame, but good for you for making the bold move!!! 😂👊🏻

Happycat1212 · 04/05/2021 12:38

I think it was pretty obvious! Oh well at least that will stop the regular bumps for updates

lovelost21 · 04/05/2021 12:44

@Happycat1212

I think it was pretty obvious! Oh well at least that will stop the regular bumps for updates
You don't need to twist the knife in!

Thanks for the update @PawPatrol24 . It was worth a try Smile

Phrowzunn · 04/05/2021 14:03

Aww shame but good for you for giving it a go!! Why the hell not, you haven’t lost anything. And you probably still made his day 😂

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