Accused of cheating - beginning of Relationship

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Hi everyone, I met a great guy About a month ago. He brings me flowers, open doors, he is very affectionate and really into me. I like him a lot too. However, last time I saw him he wasn’t as affectionate as he usually is so I send him a message later on asking if he is ok and his reply was that he is very sorry, but he has a feeling I cheated. And that it’s probably irrational and it’s his insecurities, but he is not sure he can get over it. I’m shocked. I didn’t cheat of course. What now? It’s so strange! We will talk about it tonight as he is coming for dinner. But I’m kind of freaked out

Big red flag. Get rid of him.

Good decision OP, even if he was a nice guy, he let his insecurities wreck it with you and give you the impression he was trouble, that's something he needs to deal with.

Phew. Bullet dodged!

Well done now -lan a great Christmas with treats and no walking on eggshells.

What Monkeypeas said. He deliberately tried to fuck with your head. That's some messed up crap. Thanks to each and every one of the wise people who post here. You've taught me more than you could know.

Good decision! You definitely dodged a bullet there