So the dcs didn't want to go to their activity today. They wanted to game all afternoon instead.
I insisted they go. They were really moody and stroppy.
I said to h that they didn't bring me any joy at the moment and that I found them really difficult and that they're on their gadgets too much. Changes them.
He said I should fuck off then. That he could do everything and what did I bring to the table anyway?
That I am a miseryguts all the time. The kids don't feel loved by me and that I should fuck off if my family didn't bring me joy.
He said he could do everything I do. Basically letting me know I am not needed or wanted.
My dcs are hostile when I try to reduce their gadget use and there is a lot negative energy with getting them out of the house to school etc.
He said they don't feel loved by me. I am not needed. He could do everything.
I said then maybe I should leave if that were true.
I am a SAHM right now. Maybe he's right. I stunned and very upset. They are better off without me.
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