That's a trick one Angel if it were me I'd ask if he is looking for a relationship as that is what you are looking for, rather than a friendship and see what he says.
Mr Scot as I shall call him (supposed to name them aren't we?) out of the blue suggested a call and a meet, so had a chat last night, and are meeting for a walk this week. He's nice, obviously quite clever but possibly a bit too sensible for me although we have lots in common and I quite like his photos do we'll see. He said he'll bring a flask and cake 😀
The one who disappeared (Mr check) came back, apologised for not replying and we've been messaging since. He has suggested a phone chat this week. He is the nearest to me, older child and for me the most attractive. However he he said he's had about 7 short relationships since he separated 2 years ago and after last week I don't need another player.
The one the furthest away (Mr pilot) has suggested a call this week too and maybe a walk at the weekend. He was the keenest on Match but now we've moved to WhatsApp he's gone quieter.
I got super swiped on Bumble yesterday for the first time ever (I never have any success on there) he's very local, nice photos but is 9 years older than me. I'm happy to go 9 years younger but that just seems too old. I'm intrigued though and although he turned out to be an idiot, seeing someone local last week was so much easier. I'm going to see what happens with the others first as they could come to nothing and if they go I might match with him and see if he bothers to reply.
I've never been messaging do many in one go, I normally just end up with one or none so I can only assume it's because they are all stuck at home!