@deesdeli
She's not worth it. The truth and honesty are not her thing.
Don't see it as she got away with it...she lives by a different set of moral values than you.
Being a woman doesn't naturally make her a good person..for all the men who have affairs...they have a willing partner...woman are not innocent..society just expects more of them than men.
Look forward and focus on healing from the trauma of the affair. She doesn't deserve any space in your head. View her as insignificant in your life.
@tenbob
No flaming from me. I think it's a dangerous course of action to get involved with a married man or woman....she took the risk.
Being an avid fan of true stories, there are so many affairs that result in tragic ends.
Be it the betrayed spouse, murdered by their spouse or the affair partner or the affair partner. The ones you hear of are the ones who get caught.
If you insert yourself in another person's marriage, you take a risk and it can cause merry hell and backfire on you and sometimes your family. People never think about the consequences.
The OW in your case got nothing less than she deserved, for behaving unethically and not every betrayed spouse will leave you to get on with your life after discovery, so any OM/OW should absolutely be careful.
Just like you have the bunny boiler OW...the crazy BW exists too...so I would accept my part in any revenge, if I was sleeping with another woman's husband...because as a grown adult, I ought to know that actions have consequences and take responsibility for my behaviour.