DP cross there's no food

[droopyears]

My DP of 4 years has just had a go at me because there is no food in the house. He doesn't actually live with me.
He knows I do my food shopping on a Wednesday so am usually pretty low on a Tuesday.
He seemed really cross that there wasn't a huge menu of snacks available
I just wanted to vent really

Good for you OP.
He honestly thought he could come over again, empty handed, eat dinner, use your house and be a prick to your child.

Could he be more awful.
He couldn't even pretend for 15 minutes.

I think your children will miss him less than you think.

While horrible for your son, in a way it is good that you got to see his true character, now that you had started to enforce boundaries. Had he tried to smooth things over, it all might have continued with him gradually taking advantage again. However, his selfish, greedy, immature personality has suddenly become glaringly obvious. I am sorry but so relieved for you. Good luck going forward. You can sort out thos eminor details, like his stuff. But and I now, it's been mentioned a fair few times, do change your locks. He's getting more unpleasant, so be prepared.

Box up his crap, leave it outside his mum’s. Change the locks. Apologise to your sons. Stay single for a while.

He acts like a moody teen
I hope you're ok OP.

Put all his stuff in bin bags, drop it outside his mum's house, ring the doorbell and leave. Change the locks. Block his number. Job done.

I'm sorry you and your DC had this thoroughly crap experience OP

He could have stayed at home and played on his own without interruption.

Why would he bring it over if he wasn’t going to play with them?

What a giant overgrown idiot storming out because he wanted to ignore your DC asking him to play game with him and then in his mind you had the cheek to try and force him to share!!!
OP don't forget those words he said I don't give a shit that was the mask slipping and him revealing his true self. He doesn't give a shit.

Imagine going to someone else's house to eat their food ignore their kids use their electricity you'd really have to not give a shit!!!

Sorry, OP

Of course it’s good for you (& your kids), really, that he’s shown his true colours so clearly and so soon after last week.

But still rotten for you to have to face up to and deal with

@EvilPea

He could have stayed at home and played on his own without interruption.

Why would he bring it over if he wasn’t going to play with them?

Because if he stayed home, how would he get fed?

He could have stayed at home and played on his own without interruption

I would bet good money his mum told him no more screen time or he would have his devices removed for being mardy, he is a great big sulking teenager after all. You are well rid OP, you and your DC deserve better.

Sorry this has happened OP. I agree with others, he sounds very childish and it was so out of order the way he was with your DP. He is supposed to be the adult but sounds more like another kid!

I think he’s got used to having things easy!

I would bet good money his mum told him no more screen time or he would have his devices removed for being mardy

This!! And then Droopy told him to play nicely. He must be seething.

Jesus, he's an even bigger wanker than I thought!

I'm sorry OP. At least its a clear cut decision for you, which is horrible now but saves you worrying about what you should do.
He sounds horrible, entitled selfish and horrible. Your poor DC

I do know that his Mum was in an awful mood this weekend and at one point told him that he needed to move out

He's probably sat in a McDonald's with a big meal, sulking that he had to pay for it, stealing extra paper napkins.

@droopyears

I do know that his Mum was in an awful mood this weekend and at one point told him that he needed to move out

She's probably had enough if his childish ways too. Seriously OP, you don't need such a man child.

Did he tell you that, OP?

@JamieLeeCurtains
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Not to mention some straws that will flop on him 🤣🤣

Well if he was planning moving into your house his 'charm' offensive was spectacularly ineffective!

Sounds like you and his mum are both equally fed up with his selfish, thoughtless behaviour. He probably expects her to look after him and pay for the pleasure, as well as you.

Sorry you're having to deal with the fall out and finding out just was a selfish are he is....worth knowing he long term but you need to be kind to yourself now.

Sounds like you’ve opened your eyes just in the nick of time. Pack everything up neatly and drop it round in the morning. Least said soonest mended.

@droopyears

I do know that his Mum was in an awful mood this weekend and at one point told him that he needed to move out

Whether his mother told you that or he did, don't get sucked in. You'll regret it; and your boys will really regret it.

It sounds like you and his mother have both had enough of his selfish ways. He's only got himself to blame. Please don't waste any time feeling sorry for him, it's just his pride that's hurt right now (along with his bank balance).

Well done for starting the process of detaching this nasty man-leach from your life.