DP cross there's no food

[droopyears]

My DP of 4 years has just had a go at me because there is no food in the house. He doesn't actually live with me.
He knows I do my food shopping on a Wednesday so am usually pretty low on a Tuesday.
He seemed really cross that there wasn't a huge menu of snacks available
I just wanted to vent really

Why haven't you told him to start bringing a contribution towards all the food he eats at yours?

@SeasonallySnowyPeasant He'll buy the odd take away but other than that no he doesn't contribute

4 years and not living together, so what he pops over for food and a fuxk? Is that enough for you OP, do you not want to be treated with kindness and consideration.

@droopyears

He has dinner at mine most evenings but no he doesn't ever really bring food with him.

Seriously?

He is taking the piss big time.

Self respect time OP - he is a user and you need to bin him.

So you feed him and he pays nothing?

I would be giving him a list and sending him to the shops and he can pay

And he couldn't get food because...?

Sounds like a selfish user. Only with you for what he can get from you.
Next!

Why are you putting up with this? Eats for free at your place, and then complains that you're not providing snacks the day before your big shop?
You really have to reconsider why you are being such a mug and a doormat.

Give him a list and be clear you're not paying.

He has mistaken you for his mum.

You mean ex boyfriend surely? Knob

As others have said, why are you putting up with his behaviour? Tell him to jog on.

Well this is a situation thats only going to get worse not better. Chuck him.

DP and I don't live together yet. He eats at mine most nights and has set up a standing order so he contributes to my food shop. Just an idea? Oh, and he still buys a take away and a meal out once a month

You can buy lovely doormats in the shops love. No need to be one yourself. Wink....

Really? I don't live with DP. But I see him a lot and he does a weekly shop for us. He cooks too. A decent man would be embarrassed to turn up empty handed at his girlfriend's, and expect food. Trash men are 10 a penny though, and they'll scrounge off any woman silly enough to put up with nonsense for the sake of having a man. Your man's level of trash is off the scale, he's not a provider AND he moans there's no food!!

What would he do if you said, go out and buy some then?

Does he live with his mum by any chance?

Gosh what a catch.

He strolls round to yours for a free meal every night.

Let me guess - he doesn't help with the cooking or wash up afterwards?

Please tell him to fuck off from me! And then ask him what he is going to cook for dinner at his house! Unbelievable!

Christ. My fanjo clamped shut just reading that. Nothing less attractive than a teenager trapped in a grown man's body. How you can even bring yourself to have sex with him, I can't imagine.

@Tappering No he doesn't cook or offer to wash up after

Omg dump him, it’s ridiculous that he doesn’t contribute and now he’s whining like a baby.

Whatever you do, don’t let him move in. He will most likely never contribute and never lift a finger to do housework.

Tell him 50 women think he’s a dickhead and what’s he going to do about that?

So basically you provide hot food and a shag. How romantic