Does you husband w*nk?

[ezzycozzy]

I have been married for 11 years. My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage. We have a good sex life, currently making love 8-11 times a week. I found it insulting that he told me he had a wnk this morning, even though we made love last night.
We are fairly adventurous in the bedroom and make plenty of time for using toys etc. He has discussed this with his friends who all tell him he is perfectly normal & they do exactly the same within their marriages. One even admits to wnking every day, despite having sex 4-5 times a week. Comments please.... :)

@BoggledBudgie

I’m going to assume you don’t have kids yet to manage 11 times a week

...we have 2 kids

Just have sex properly 3 or 4 times a week and you won’t keep feeling like you need to do it 11 times to be satisfied 👍

@FourPlasticRings

I read this as wink.

😂 😉 😂

@DioneTheDiabolist

My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage. Why? Where? Did he tap a wee glass and request silence before making this announcement? Who else was there?

Please tell me he did this, complete with glass-tapping and throat- clearing, at a socially-distanced meeting of the local Toastmasters association?

He's discussed his masturbatory habits with you and his friends? I'm surprised he's got time to catch his breath.

You have sex everyday sometimes more than once? Eeee hen you’ll get a sore chuff.

Maybe I'm just a dick but this post seems like an excuse to talk about how much sex you're having.

It's a rum do when the responses are funnier than the "comedy" opener

You seem to be taking his masturbation personally. I would be amazed if my husband, or any healthy man for that matter, didn't wank.

We have sex 33 times a week and a both wank each night, my week is shit if the number is any less

Male perspective. Yes we do. No performance pressure or need for new ideas or hand there not there, just knocking one out. You should too.

@LunchBoxPolice

Just have sex properly 3 or 4 times a week and you won’t keep feeling like you need to do it 11 times to be satisfied 👍

Ouch!

I had a wank this morning, the town crier should be round shortly to inform everyone. Despite currently gagmaking love*gag 28-37.5 times a week I still like to rub a few out.

Do you not have a telly?

I thought the kids had gone back to school?

8 - 11 times a week.

So you do

8-11 is so random lol

@boredboredboredboredbored

I thought the kids had gone back to school?

lol i don't think it's kids trolling middle aged mn users for wank fodder

I have to say I was stunned by the 8-11 times a month.

Masturbation is not just a sexual thing but can be used for all sorts of reasons , including stress or maybe just having a spare 10 minutes. You shouldn't take it as a personal thing and I am sure he is very happy with your sex life.
One thing, you may want to do it as well, if not for the other reasons , but just so you know what pleases you and if there are any changes, so you can help to direct him.

We have a good sex life, currently making love 8-11 times a week

Do you keep a spreadsheet? Otherwise I'm casting doubt on the accuracy of your key stats here.

Which days get a double, and is there a pattern?

@ezzycozzy maybe 🤔 he does it because you call it love and he just was a quick buzz
Also 2-3 weeks isn't frequent and him wanting has nothing to do with you. Just like if he eats ana extra donut or picks his nose.
It's his BODY

My DH wanks 21-37 times a week which means I only have to have sex once every 4 years.

I’ve never asked him but I do, always have. But then I’ve always been a horny bitch.

Why does he discuss his sexual habits with his friends, I don't know any men who do this. It's usually young lads who brag about this.

My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage.

You call once every 2-3 weeks frequently?

I don't get why this is a problem. It doesn't appear to impact on your sex life at all.