Does you husband w*nk?

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I have been married for 11 years. My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage. We have a good sex life, currently making love 8-11 times a week. I found it insulting that he told me he had a wnk this morning, even though we made love last night.
We are fairly adventurous in the bedroom and make plenty of time for using toys etc. He has discussed this with his friends who all tell him he is perfectly normal & they do exactly the same within their marriages. One even admits to wnking every day, despite having sex 4-5 times a week. Comments please.... :)

Who are all these people having so much sex? Sounds exhausting

I don't understand what you're bothered about if you still have such a healthy sex life that you're happy with?

@j712adrian why would someone lie about it with their wife who is happy to masturbate? It just doesn’t do anything for my husband who prefers the real deal or an early night. Says he’s never been fussed for it tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Grow up

@DioneTheDiabolist

My husband recently announced that he has frequently masturbated (every 2-3 weeks) throughout our entire marriage. Why? Where? Did he tap a wee glass and request silence before making this announcement? Who else was there?

Is a wee glass similar to a penis beaker?

We have sex once a month and he wanks regularly (he hasn't shared how many times, but it will probably be a lot more than your DH!)

And I don't care.

How come you can ask such a direct question, but can't bring yourself to type the word "wank"?

[quote Isadora2007]@j712adrian why would someone lie about it with their wife who is happy to masturbate? It just doesn’t do anything for my husband who prefers the real deal or an early night. Says he’s never been fussed for it tbh. 🤷🏻‍♀️[/quote]
yes but is the real deal having sex with you, or having a wank? and how do you know....?

As far as I see it most people do it. If the balance of your libido is slightly skewed it can take the pressure off. But once a fortnight when you are already having sex more than daily sounds just like a bit of self soothing when he got to the time he felt a need but you had gone out for a much needed evening out with a friend. I am more concerned that he felt the need to say it. Was he actually saying he needs sex twice a day every day or his balls go blue? Or was it just a passing comment when you had said you had a good sex life to actually say I could still manage more?

If the balance was the other way though I might be more concerned. Before the exh and I split I did a lot of masturbating more because I had no wish to do it with him. I kindof understand why that upset him more though I never failed to advise why when asked ..