Hi OP, I re-found your thread today and came to this one. I don't know what's happened and how you're feeling or whether you can come back here safely, but I think I can see that how you were feeling when you were set on the course and leaving was a million times happier and freer than you were in your last post.
I am sorry that he has talked you out of it. He's inside your head. Knows all the 'buttons' to press to keep you doubting yourself. That's not love. That's not support. It really isn't. He wants to keep you for himself.
He's saying all the things he thinks you want to hear - 'allowing you' more free time, getting a cleaner (I very much doubt this will materialise) and fostering...That he's mentioned this suggests that children have been on your mind and you've already talked about how much joy you get from being around young children.
Now imagine him throwing a booklet at your face on purpose in front of a young child. Imagine him throwing it at the face of a child. That's what would happen. That's who he is. He's gotten his way with you all these years by telling you until you believe him that you're worth less than him.
No supportive husband checks his wife's phone and then talks her out of a course she's already enrolled on. He's not right about you. Otherwise he would rationally and objectively see that you are so committed that you did all of this on your own initiative and so clearly it means a great deal to you, and you got accepted onto the course which means that the teaching experts who teach the degree must also have see your worth. But he's not objective or rational. He wants to keep you in your box where he's got you.
He is not right. He is manipulative and cruel. I have experience of dealing with the husband of a friend who is like this so I know if he were here I would not believe him. I would believe you! I would believe in you!
I wish you could believe in you too.
I know what you mean about 'woo' and stars aligning. But that already happened. You got accepted onto the course. The universe can only point us in the right direction. Obstacles don't magically melt away. Not for anyone. For any reason.
You're tired and upset and I don't know if you're safe. But there are some super kind and wise women here... TorkTorkBam, RandomMess, Updownroundandround, Daftapath...among many others - they've all given such great advice. And we're all rooting for you.