No one has a right to sex.
The end.
Yes agreed, no argument there. Full stop..
However lets change that to;
One has an "expectation" of sex?
I think that when someone marries and that implies sexual fidelity then there is an expectation of sex on both male and female sides.
Now a few weeks back met a woman who is shock horror a sex worker!.
Nope!, wasnt engaging her for her services, this was at a social business event meeting!
In the course of an intresting chat shes 36 years old no longer married has a decent job and as a part time acticvity does sex work. She by her own admission does it for the money around 150 quid an hour and has more work on the go than she can handle. I asked her what men did she see and she said mainly from around 40 to as old as men in their seventies and has known a few in their Eighites but as long as their clean and treat her well then shes no objection to that, the only men she didnt like seeing were asian ones who in her words had very little respect for women.
She then said that she does know a few other women in that line of work who mainly saw young single men but in the main most of her
clients were married she a said around 80 odd percent of them claimed to be married! She also said that she had a few widowers men who were older who liked being close to a woman but for various reasons it didnt happen for them anymore.
She futher said that most all of the married men never or very rareley got sex at home no matter what they did or didnt do, it seemed it had once been alright but over time had then dried up. Yes of course they could use their right hand but it wasnt the same as physcially being with a woman that thats the thing that they most missed, she said that some men were more than happy just to cuddle her and the actual sex was incidential.
I did ask her what did she think of the woman at home and she said it wasnt a concern of hers and whilst there were men who wanted but didnt get then thats was just the way it is. She went further to say that she thought if they did get what they wanted then she'd have very few customers. She was also under the impression that most of them just wanted the sex they werent getting, they didnt what to break up the family home they saw what she could provide as a substitute.
I asked her how she coped with it and she said most of the time very well as she liked sex and being paid for something she liked, wasnt it seemed a bad thing to her, and when or if she didnt like what she was doing then she'd stop. She did say that some men were a bit abusive and some demanded condomless sex but she weeded them out very early on, bareback sex wasnt the thing that she was offering and none of her acquanitcies would do it either thoiugh it did seem there were some girls from eastern europe who would or were forced into that and they were dobbed into the police on odd occasion.
So thats that, what we do about it i don't know but i suspect it will carry on and on..