DP sulking as I wasn't available

[Fuzzyplant100]

Had a text from DP this morning (we don't live together) to say should he buy a bbq and come over to mine this afternoon with his DS. I replied and said sorry I can't today, me and DS are going to my parents for some food.

DP now seems to be sulking - taking forever to reply to messages, and only a few words each time. Nothing like normal. Definitely coming across as quite shitty in his messages.

Should I say something or just wait for him to get over it? I think he was expecting me to be available (i normally am), or cancel my plans with my Mum Maybe I should have?

OP, can you answer, not necessarily on the thread but to yourself, why he is more important than you?

Please PLEASE listen to what people have said already and run for the fucking hills! Do you not value At least your children here?!!'n

Wtf are you with this idiot? Dump him. He’s abusive in a different way to your ex.

Lives to short for this.

how are you OP 🌺

In addition to all said here he eats at your home 4 times a week for free plus snacks but when you eat out you go halves He should be treating you in appreciation of all the meals you provide.

I wouldn’t want to say whether he is/isn’t abuse, but I’ve never known a man I would want to pay to date- which is essentially what you’re doing with him.