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Secret planning to leave DH - days to go .

929 replies

Mydoghasbettereyebrowsthanme · 03/07/2020 15:34

Hi there - previous thread started with DH AWOL , arrested for drink driving . Final straw for me in out marriage , planning to leave in secret on Thursday. 6 days to go . Feeling shit about everything - pain the kids will have to go through , pain and upset his family and him . Wishing he was a reasonable person enough that we could separate amicably. Wishing I could predict which way this is going to go- hating the double life I am currently leading .Sad started this thread just for the hand holding whilst the proverbial hits the fan over the next 7 days !

OP posts:
momoftwo76 · 09/07/2020 11:53

Good luck for today xx

lovewatchingrainfall · 09/07/2020 11:55

Sending you good vibes, and hoping it’s not raining where you are so he decides to go play golf and you manage to get out and all the bits you want

TheMaddHugger · 09/07/2020 11:57

(((((Mega Madd Hugs)))) We believe in you 🌻

concernedforthefuture · 09/07/2020 12:02

Thinking of you today ThanksWineCake

Juno231 · 09/07/2020 12:12

Best of luck today! Hope it all goes well xx

Cheesecake53 · 09/07/2020 12:19

I am thinking of you!

GreyGardens88 · 09/07/2020 12:27

Placemarking

Quietlyloud · 09/07/2020 12:29

Think of you op. Hoping it goes as smoothly as it can.

IshaPoet · 09/07/2020 12:31

Good luck today praying everything goes smoothly for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

StrawberryJam200 · 09/07/2020 12:31

Don't know if it's too late to say this, but I wouldn't attempt to leave in front of him, it could be dangerous. If he doesn't go to the golf, either a) get a friend to ask for some emergency help from him, something that'll take a long time, or b) postpone moving.

whiteroseredrose · 09/07/2020 12:40

Have followed both threads. Hope it goes smoothly.

dublingirl66 · 09/07/2020 12:45

Sending you so many good wishes

Been there been through the turmoil and life is about to get so much better

Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Strongswans · 09/07/2020 12:45

Good luck today, I've been thinking of you. Hope it all goes smoothly.

LazyDaisy22 · 09/07/2020 12:50

Thinking of you OP and wishing you luck for today. Please update us when you can.

GCHWho · 09/07/2020 12:59

Hope you manage to move as planned. Onwards and upwards OP. Flowers

Elvesdontdomagic · 09/07/2020 13:02

Thinking of you today OP

Chaaaaaching · 09/07/2020 13:19

Sorry you’re in this situation but you’re doing the right thing. Good luck OP you’re doing brilliant so far! Flowers

SRS29 · 09/07/2020 13:29

Good luck OP, really hoping you managed this and you and your children are somewhere safe Flowers

Holothane · 09/07/2020 13:29

Good luck for today hope your safe soon, 🤗.

MumW · 09/07/2020 13:39

Good luck, hope it's going ok.
Above all , stay safe and call the police if he kicks off and tries to stop you.
Flowers

compulsiveliar2019 · 09/07/2020 13:48

Delurking to say good luck today op. I hope you get out safely.

Mumek · 09/07/2020 13:51

Good Luck OP

Lightsareon · 09/07/2020 13:55

Another one thinking of you and willing you on OP, hope it's all going well Flowers

Fredfrench62 · 09/07/2020 13:56

I have followed your previous thread. Good luck. I hope everything has gone to plan. Flowers

Frank77 · 09/07/2020 13:56

Hope everything is going to plan OP. You’re being so strong. Love and best wishes.

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