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Secret planning to leave DH - days to go .

929 replies

Mydoghasbettereyebrowsthanme · 03/07/2020 15:34

Hi there - previous thread started with DH AWOL , arrested for drink driving . Final straw for me in out marriage , planning to leave in secret on Thursday. 6 days to go . Feeling shit about everything - pain the kids will have to go through , pain and upset his family and him . Wishing he was a reasonable person enough that we could separate amicably. Wishing I could predict which way this is going to go- hating the double life I am currently leading .Sad started this thread just for the hand holding whilst the proverbial hits the fan over the next 7 days !

OP posts:
Notwiththeseknees · 09/07/2020 14:15

Sending you strength, wishing you happiness. 💕

JackiFazaki · 09/07/2020 14:18

Have been thinking of you also. To better days Flowers

Annonymiss123 · 09/07/2020 14:30

Thinking of you today and sending you strength. Flowers

Onekidnoclue · 09/07/2020 14:31

Good luck @Mydoghasbettereyebrowsthanme been thinking positive thoughts for you today. X

Longdaysandnights · 09/07/2020 14:33

💐

Ratbagcatbag · 09/07/2020 14:35

Hope you're on your way to getting loaded up. I remember your original thread.

This is the right decision, the next few days won't be easy. But you're incredible and strong and will get through it.

Huge good luck.

Jokie · 09/07/2020 14:38

Wishing you all the best of luck and hope it's going well.

TeaLibrary · 09/07/2020 14:39

Hopefully by now op you are well on your way to making your escape to a new life. Thinking of you and hoping today goes as well as possible.

Timepasses · 09/07/2020 14:53

I've followed both threads and just wanted to wish you all the luck. Thanks

DorisDay88 · 09/07/2020 14:58

Been thinking about you all day today - hope everything has gone to plan and tomorrow is the first day of your new life 💐

Nutrigrainygoodness · 09/07/2020 15:13

Hope everything is going to plan OP 🤞🤞

Ryah1 · 09/07/2020 15:36

Good luck

Desiringonlychild · 09/07/2020 15:58

Hope everything is going to plan :)

wishfultinkerer · 09/07/2020 16:09

Good luck OP. Stay strong.

felixowl · 09/07/2020 16:13

My thoughts, my prayers and my best wishes for you.

fantasmasgoria1 · 09/07/2020 16:15

I send you my very best wishes and luck.

Lipstickandlashes · 09/07/2020 16:20

Been thinking about you all day OP - hope all is well and you're out safely.

bilbodog · 09/07/2020 16:28

Good luck OP

ittooshallpass · 09/07/2020 16:28

Hope you're away and safe OP Thanks

Takingontheworld · 09/07/2020 16:32

Hope you're safe and well with your little ones in your new home Flowers

NameChange657 · 09/07/2020 16:34

How are you OP?

bigknickersbigknockers · 09/07/2020 16:37

Hope its going as well as possible for you OP.

user1498572889 · 09/07/2020 16:48

Hope it’s all going ok 💐

crystaltips98 · 09/07/2020 16:53

Good luck op. It will be difficult at first but you can do this. I hope today has gone well. Sending hugs

SixesAndEights · 09/07/2020 17:08

Hope you're out and in your new place, OP. Flowers