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Secret planning to leave DH - days to go .

929 replies

Mydoghasbettereyebrowsthanme · 03/07/2020 15:34

Hi there - previous thread started with DH AWOL , arrested for drink driving . Final straw for me in out marriage , planning to leave in secret on Thursday. 6 days to go . Feeling shit about everything - pain the kids will have to go through , pain and upset his family and him . Wishing he was a reasonable person enough that we could separate amicably. Wishing I could predict which way this is going to go- hating the double life I am currently leading .Sad started this thread just for the hand holding whilst the proverbial hits the fan over the next 7 days !

OP posts:
MrsPerfect12 · 08/07/2020 20:10

Lots of positive vibes, sunshine and good luck in your new home. We'll all be here for you for the weeks and months ahead. Wishing you the best of Gluck Flowers

Hormonecrazyhell · 08/07/2020 20:16

Really hope it all runs smooth for you tomorrow. Remember to set up new account on Uber, just eat and other delivery services. Don’t want him logging in and finding your new address. Happened to a friend of mine, the pizza led her ex straight to them

LauraMipsum · 08/07/2020 20:19

Good luck. Hope all goes well.

ChewChewIsMySpiritAnimal · 08/07/2020 20:23

What a brilliant tip for taking all the bedding off the beds!

Member345787 · 08/07/2020 20:23

Have been following since the beginning, and counting down the last few days with you! All the very best for tomorrow, you have got this! Flowers Flowers Star Star

Morporkia · 08/07/2020 20:30

Best of luck for tomorrow. 💐

Bluetrews25 · 08/07/2020 20:36

Hope all goes well, Mydog.

jbee1979 · 08/07/2020 20:40

Good luck!! Try to sleep tonight xx

AfterSchoolWorry · 08/07/2020 20:40

Best of luck OP !

🍀🍀🍀

feelinghopeful2 · 08/07/2020 20:40

Hoping for the best for you tomorrow! Thanks

Defenbaker · 08/07/2020 20:48

Good luck OP. Fingers crossed this time tomorrow you'll be installed in your new home. ☺

Dartsplayer · 08/07/2020 20:54

De-lurking to wish you all the luck in the world tomorrow. I've followed both threads

ShreksAuntie · 08/07/2020 21:04

Good luck for tomorrow! Will be thinking about you.

CupoTeap · 08/07/2020 21:06

Good luck for tomorrow- hope it goes ok.

I was you a few years ago, it is worth it!

HippoMumsy · 08/07/2020 21:15

Sending you so much love and luck for tomorrow, been thinking of you lots, you’ve got this ❤️ xxx

MummyofTw0 · 08/07/2020 21:26

Best of luck xxxxc

Fairycake2 · 08/07/2020 21:26

Good luck for tomorrow OP 🍀 Will be thinking of you x

Ohhhh · 08/07/2020 21:31

Hope all goes well
Tomorrow

monsterific · 08/07/2020 21:34

Good luck for tomorrow OP. Thanks

Fifilafrog · 08/07/2020 21:36

De lurking from both threads to wish you all the very best for tomorrow. I hope it goes smoothly. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your (and your kids and dog's) lives. Wishing you all a bright and happy new future together 💐 💪🏼 👏🏻 xx

Namechange170518 · 08/07/2020 21:40

Good luck op, will be thinking of you x

ComeOnEileen11 · 08/07/2020 21:56

Good luck OP. The immense relief when it's done awaits you!

MissAli74 · 08/07/2020 21:59

Good luck. Hope it goes smoothly 🤞

SoulofanAggron · 08/07/2020 22:00

Best wishes OP xxx Looking forward too the update when you're out the other side.

MadisonAvenue · 08/07/2020 22:00

Good luck OP!