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Why did I trust him - such a fool

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Meadow1203 · 02/07/2020 11:45

It seems I have made the biggest mistake of my life. I moved to France last year, sold up in the UK and bought a house with my DP which needs major renovation. We had a dream to make a lovely home with a couple of gites, be self sufficient . That was until 3 days ago when announced that we are finished.
He is convinced that I had sex with my ex in Feb, when I had to go back to the UK, I did not and he thinks I have been talking to my ex which I have not other than a text a few week ago about our adult son. I am on good terms with my ex who I was with for 20 years and he hates it, he asked me to not talk to him anymore which I pretty much have.
So rewind 3 days ago, out of the blue he has messaged my ex's gf and told her that I have sleep with her bf, she has sent me very nasty messages.
I am devastated, I am here with no support, no money, friends or family, my dream has been smashed to pieces. Am having major panic attacks and feel sick to my stomach. I am stuck here and just don't know what to do.

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Meadow1203 · 27/07/2020 15:03

Thank you mother I know what game he is playing . This latest about me owing money, has gone up to £800 now is just a guilt trip. If he had stayed if I paid he would find something else to attack me with. I don't why I let it bother me. I have financially supported him for 4 years, free rent, food, meals out, holiday oh and camper vans. And because of lock down I lost my income and he has supported us I now owe him. It is just a load of bollocks.

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JudyGemstone · 27/07/2020 22:14

Would you give him £500 for the camper van? I know you shouldn't have to, just depends what's worth more to you.

Meadow1203 · 28/07/2020 12:01

judy not sure what you mean, I am happy to let him have the camper because he would be homeless, Despite all the nasty things he has done to me, I would not do that to him .I have given him 150 as far I am concerned will call it quits.

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