Do you forgive sexting?

[Purplesndteal]

One off explicit. He says he just didn't think what he was doing. I do believe it was a one off. It was ten lines. We have a baby, a house, a dog and we're supposed to get married next year

Well that's what my therapist told me 🍒 . Also that I needed to analyse the relationship as a whole and not just this "episode".

I did 'tons of acid, coke and shrooms when he was younger. And every now and then when older' . I don't have a problem with sexting others when in a relationship, I don't cheat and am not disloyal.
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Therapists never tell you what to do. Especially after your first meeting. A therapist would still be assessing your needs at this stage.

Yes, I know how therapy works. I have my own therapist who's the one who told me to make no decisions as of yet.

We're seeing a different therapist later in the week together.

It's odd my heart says leave, my head says it's salvageable.

I forgave my man when I caught him sexting in the first year of our relationship... eventually. We split for a year then got back together. We're married with kids now. It's bloody hard to forgive and I needed a long time but I did. We're strong now. I guess just trust your gut, if you want to work through it and see if the trust can be rebuilt then go for it.

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Let’s call sexting for what it is. It’s infidelity. Only you can decide if you can forgive and forget.

Where are there sooo many, sake! Wonder what happened in the end?!

@Mummypig16 so ok that you’re doing internet searches for sexting aye?

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I did and then he did it again. And then I got paranoid and starting checking his phone and got myself into a terrible anxious state, constantly waiting for him to slip up.

Things improved, I trusted him again, we got married and had a baby and then he left me for a work colleague and I only found that out by snooping in his texts again. It made me ill and I would never tolerate it again, it completely screws you up. It really is no way to live.

Oh ffs zombie thread 🤬 sorry all