I suspect a lot of, if not most women, given the choice, would rather men didn't watch porn, however, the genie is out of the bottle. Too easy to view and now too unrealistic to say, "don't watch it".
So, you have to deal with the world as you find it. Which IMHO means educate your children that porn is nothing like sex in real life, there's a lot of stuff that women wouldn't like on there, it often doesn't show any prep or safety considerations - that's edited out most likely - and it's largely aimed at how men's fantasy of doing it is, rather than taking into account whether it would work to turn a woman on, plus every woman is different so get to know what they like rather than trying to copy.
Beyond that, hopefully, you will end up being intimate with a man who knows the difference between porn and reality and would always chose the latter over the former ideally. If you're with a man who can't understand the difference or prefers the former, or insists on a technique straight out of porn and that does nothing for you, then best to bin, but otherwise it's not a drastic issue. The women might have a good physique, but a lot of the men on there likely do too compared to the porn users, so comparing yourself to the women is pointless. Chris Hemsworth might be someone to ponder over, but it doesn't mean that we like our SO any less for not matching up to his physique.
So, not quite ok with porn, but I accept its there, if you are still treated with respect in real life, that's what counts. That's how I deal with it, works for me.